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        <title>Trouble in Paradise — thenest</title>
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        <pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2026 02:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
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        <title>***Geek****</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7506885/geek</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 08:08:50 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>magsugar13</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I think your email accoun t has been hacked again!]]>
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        <title>more S/O from yesterday: how do you take care of your skin?</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7503974/more-s-o-from-yesterday-how-do-you-take-care-of-your-skin</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 11:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Muddled</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>What face cleanser do you use and how often?</p><p>Exfoliator? </p><p>Moisturizer? </p><p>Wrinkle fighters?</p><p>Anything else? <br /></p>]]>
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        <title>The statue of Limitation</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7504441/the-statue-of-limitation</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 12:43:59 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>adnoyd</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I recently had a heated argument with my husband of 16 months about a relationship I had 25 years ago.  Issue is that he feels that I have portrayed him for not disclosing this information of this man who he played pop warner  football with as a youth he says that the family of this man was like family to him yet we didn't invite them to our wedding.  The relationship was in the past and insignificant since it was so long ago....He now thinks I am withholding my past from and states his street light is on...is it me or is that crazy ? <br />]]>
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        <title>WTF PIP Party in this post.</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7503529/wtf-pip-party-in-this-post</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 10:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>Motzie</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p><img alt="Pet bed" src="http://img3.etsystatic.com/il_570xN.254591827.jpg" width="570" height="630" srcset="https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=300, width=300/http://img3.etsystatic.com/il_570xN.254591827.jpg 300w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=600, width=600/http://img3.etsystatic.com/il_570xN.254591827.jpg 600w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=800, width=800/http://img3.etsystatic.com/il_570xN.254591827.jpg 800w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=1200, width=1200/http://img3.etsystatic.com/il_570xN.254591827.jpg 1200w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=1600, width=1600/http://img3.etsystatic.com/il_570xN.254591827.jpg 1600w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=2000, width=2000/http://img3.etsystatic.com/il_570xN.254591827.jpg 2000w, http://img3.etsystatic.com/il_570xN.254591827.jpg" sizes="100vw" /></p>&#13;
<p>Etsy. $40 "Pet Bed"  Available in a variety of colors. </p>&#13;
<p>.</p>]]>
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        <title>S/O Another pole: What makeup will you not leave the house without?</title>
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        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 12:16:32 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Muddled</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[For me, it's mascara. I feel naked without it.<br />]]>
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        <title>Mirena IUD Hors...come here.</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7504593/mirena-iud-hors-come-here</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 13:06:55 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Mortomo</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Was there a point after the halfway mark where you started getting cramping and spotting?  I pretty much forget that I have it, but in the last month or so I've been spotting about once a week (very minimal) and the last 2 days I'm having some major cramping on both sides (bad enough that I need to take ibuprofin).</p>&#13;
<p>I've had it just over 3 years and I wonder if the hormones are diminishing to the point where I'm getting PMS and eventually my period.</p>&#13;
<p>I'm also curious....if you have it removed at the end of 5 yrs and then have a new one inserted right away the same day, do you still get all of the side effects that you got with the first one at the beginning?  </p>]]>
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        <title>What has made you laugh lately?</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7504020/what-has-made-you-laugh-lately</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 11:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>julie324</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>A comic that said:  In support of the childhood obesity epidemic, I have decided to eat all of the Halloween candy I bought.</p>&#13;
<p> </p>&#13;
<p>Website:  <a rel="nofollow" href="https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&amp;target=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.coolpacifiers.com%2F">www.coolpacifiers.com</a>  One pacifier says "mute button"  another says "pull to sound alarm"</p>&#13;
<p> </p>&#13;
<p>Edited to fix mistake in title</p>]]>
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        <title>IHO Halloween, I dyed my hair red</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7503685/iho-halloween-i-dyed-my-hair-red</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 10:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>gaultry</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Well, highlighted.  It's quite... striking?</p>&#13;
<p>Anyway, dark brown hair and intense red highlights. I'm still trying to decide if I like it.</p>&#13;
<p> </p>&#13;
<p>Speaking of Halloween, do you guys have any ideas for what a single person should do?  I could stay home and watch a few scary movies (alone) but that seems too depressing. </p>]]>
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        <title>Mediation today</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7501881/mediation-today</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 20:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>kmount</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>I can't believe those posts from 3 months ago, lamenting that my marriage might be over, were even me.  </p><p>I went to mediation today with ex.  We're trying to avoid needing lawyers since we haven't been married long and don't have children.  Wow did it bring to light our issues!  I think he harped on about how we need to split the utility bills for the condo I haven't lived in since August for about 10 minutes.  His main reasoning was because my clothes are still there.  What?!?  Ok, it was slightly more complicated than that, but still.  Basically, it was a fantastic reminder of just how irresponsible and unreasonable he is.  We made it out alive and will still not need lawyers, thankfully.</p><p>My post from a couple days ago, about new BF with baby-mama-drama, plus posts from a while ago about H, just remind me that being in the thick of a relationship makes it really hard to see it for what it is.  Getting distance from both will be really good for me.</p>]]>
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        <title>Had a TIP dream</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7502515/had-a-tip-dream</link>
        <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 05:44:24 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>crabbygrabass</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>There were a bunch of us at a get together at a pool.  The main person I remember being in it is Betty - likely because I read the post about her having Abby right before bed.  You all had your kids with you but there was a woman at the house we were at that would watch them all while we went out and did fun things.</p><p>Do you think that means I'm going through TIP withdrawal???? lol </p>]]>
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        <title>help! opinions wanted</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7480246/help-opinions-wanted</link>
        <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 21:35:28 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>emilie5</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>I am new to the nest, but I have posted before on the bump. I need some opinions from people that I do not know. I want opinions and I know that I will get them here. I am going to make this as short as possible without leaving out important details. I am currently mid twenties. I am currently dating my high school sweetheart, but we have not been together for this whole time. We dated for 3 years as teens, and we have been together 4 years now (since we were 22), for a total of 7 years. A year after we started dating for the second time, we purchased a home together, soon after that, we found out we were pregnant. We have a wonderful 14 month old baby.</p>&#13;
<p>  Here is the problem. My boyfriend has been telling me since we were 16 that he wanted to marry me, but we aren't even engaged. Time after time he tells me that he will eventually pop the question. At first, the reason was that he didnt want people to think that we were only getting engaged because of the pregnancy. Then it was because he didn't have the money. So, I gave him my grandmothers ring (9 diamonds) and told him to have it reset, but still no proposal. Next, he says when I bring it up he puts it off longer and longer because he wants it to be a suprise, and  he wants to do it 'his way'. He says he has something special planned.... but he has been saying that for 2 years now. I feel like he is constantly making excuses. </p>&#13;
<p> To be honest, I have thought about ulimatims, but I wouldn't want it that way. If we didnt have my baby I would have really considered ending things. I do love my boyfriend, but I feel like I if he eally loved me that he would have done IT already. Thanks for letting me b*tch, now please tell me what you think. Thank you!</p>]]>
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        <title>I hope Lindsay fired her makeup artist</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7498640/i-hope-lindsay-fired-her-makeup-artist</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 09:57:47 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>BeebeeEater</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Yikes a roo! </p><p><img src="http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/pictures/20111020/Lindsay%20Lohan%20Court/t/lindsay-lohan-court-7thumb.jpg" height="633" width="423" alt="image" srcset="https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=300, width=300/http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/pictures/20111020/Lindsay%20Lohan%20Court/t/lindsay-lohan-court-7thumb.jpg 300w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=600, width=600/http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/pictures/20111020/Lindsay%20Lohan%20Court/t/lindsay-lohan-court-7thumb.jpg 600w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=800, width=800/http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/pictures/20111020/Lindsay%20Lohan%20Court/t/lindsay-lohan-court-7thumb.jpg 800w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=1200, width=1200/http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/pictures/20111020/Lindsay%20Lohan%20Court/t/lindsay-lohan-court-7thumb.jpg 1200w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=1600, width=1600/http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/pictures/20111020/Lindsay%20Lohan%20Court/t/lindsay-lohan-court-7thumb.jpg 1600w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=2000, width=2000/http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/pictures/20111020/Lindsay%20Lohan%20Court/t/lindsay-lohan-court-7thumb.jpg 2000w, http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/pictures/20111020/Lindsay%20Lohan%20Court/t/lindsay-lohan-court-7thumb.jpg" sizes="100vw" /></p><p>The underlined cheekbones are a little much, no? In other photos you can really see how bloodshot her eyes are. Such a mess.</p><p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&amp;target=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.idontlikeyouinthatway.com%2F2011%2F10%2Fcrack-meth-zombie-hooker-tranny-goes-to-court.html"> http://www.idontlikeyouinthatway.com/2011/10/crack-meth-zombie-hooker-tranny-goes-to-court.html</a></p>]]>
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        <title>Abby is here!</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7497747/abby-is-here</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 07:05:22 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>BettyBookworm</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Went in at one in the morning. Discovered that I was 5cm. Rapid dilation progressed. Went natural &amp; delivered my beautiful little egg roll this morning. More later!]]>
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        <title>I sold my rings</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7497253/i-sold-my-rings</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 21:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>BowiesInSpace</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>It's enough to pay off my lawyer, plus a little left over for savings.  </p>&#13;
<p>I'm kinda struck dumb right now.  I will be debt free. </p>]]>
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        <title>What does TIP say?</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7499700/what-does-tip-say</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 12:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>sweetie0228</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&amp;target=http%3A%2F%2Fcommunity.thebump.com%2Fcs%2Fks%2Fforums%2Fthread%2F59318530.aspx">http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/59318530.aspx</a></p>&#13;
<p>A SM on the Blended Families board on the bump (titled What's my Role) asks how bad is it to join a "prestigious exclusive only the best of the best families are invited" if she needs to hide it from her Stepson and needs to hide the fact she is step mother to this organization.</p>&#13;
<p>Enjoy <img src="https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/resources/emoji/wink.png" title=";)" alt=";)" height="20" /></p>]]>
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        <title>Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7500567/ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 15:13:42 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Motzie</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab89/RheaJeanH/moldyroom.jpg" border="0" alt="image" srcset="https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=300, width=300/http://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab89/RheaJeanH/moldyroom.jpg 300w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=600, width=600/http://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab89/RheaJeanH/moldyroom.jpg 600w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=800, width=800/http://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab89/RheaJeanH/moldyroom.jpg 800w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=1200, width=1200/http://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab89/RheaJeanH/moldyroom.jpg 1200w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=1600, width=1600/http://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab89/RheaJeanH/moldyroom.jpg 1600w, https://us.v-cdn.net/cdn-cgi/image/quality=80, format=auto, fit=scale-down, height=2000, width=2000/http://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab89/RheaJeanH/moldyroom.jpg 2000w, http://i852.photobucket.com/albums/ab89/RheaJeanH/moldyroom.jpg" sizes="100vw" /></p>&#13;
<p>Just EWWWWWWWWWWWW! I have no idea where this is from, I found it in a work file. It was so gross I had to share. </p>]]>
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        <title>Holy crap Geek!</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7497842/holy-crap-geek</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 07:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>BeebeeEater</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>wtf are you feeding that child, MiracleGro??? He's so BIG!</p><p>Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! <br /></p>]]>
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        <title>Baby blog that TIP will like!</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7499749/baby-blog-that-tip-will-like</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 12:47:25 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>kirac</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&amp;target=http%3A%2F%2Fassholebaby.blogspot.com%2F">http://assholebaby.blogspot.com/</a></p><p>I think you guys will enjoy it very much.   </p>]]>
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        <title>Howdy Strangers!</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7500773/howdy-strangers</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 15:53:38 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>JeskaBean</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[So what has everyone been up to?]]>
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        <title>What percent are you (OWS related)?</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7495043/what-percent-are-you-ows-related</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 13:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>BowiesInSpace</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&amp;target=http%3A%2F%2Fblogs.wsj.com%2Feconomics%2F2011%2F10%2F19%2Fwhat-percent-are-you%2F%3Fmod%3Dwsj_share_twitter">http://blogs.wsj.com/economics/2011/10/19/what-percent-are-you/?mod=wsj_share_twitter</a></p>&#13;
<p>Where do you fall in the 99%?  </p>]]>
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        <title>For Muddled, a polle.</title>
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        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 12:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>Motzie</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[(fvck, I suck at making these things)[Poll]]]>
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        <title>Hind Bat Signal!! - BF post</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7499975/hind-bat-signal-bf-post</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 13:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>CurlyQ284</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[Sorry no clicky, phone posting.  This woman is joining some "skull and crossbones" organization for mommy and toddler and it looks like she plans to pretend SS doesn't exist to get into this snotty group.   <a rel="nofollow" href="https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&amp;target=http%3A%2F%2Fcommunity.thebump.com%2Fcs%2Fks%2Fforums%2F1%2F59318530%2FShowThread.aspx">http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/1/59318530/ShowThread.aspx</a>]]>
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        <title>Sephora&#39;s F&amp;amp;F sale</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7498503/sephoras-f-f-sale</link>
        <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 09:37:31 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>Mortomo</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>If you need (or want <img src="http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-5.gif" alt="Wink" srcset="http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-5.gif 300w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-5.gif 600w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-5.gif 800w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-5.gif 1200w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-5.gif 1600w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-5.gif 2000w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-5.gif" sizes="100vw" />) anything from Sephora, their Friends and Family sale started today.  Click on the link to get your 20% off code:</p>&#13;
<p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/home/leaving?allowTrusted=1&amp;target=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.sephoralove.com%2Ffriendsandfamily%2F">http://www.sephoralove.com/friendsandfamily/ </a><br /></p>&#13;
<p>I really need to stay away from it myself, but there are a couple of things I do need.</p>&#13;
<p>Also, if you go through Ebates.com you get an additional 4% back after you place your order.  If you would like a referral to Ebates, let me know. I think we both get an additional $5 for a referral.</p>]]>
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        <title>Confessions</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 19:54:38 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>julie324</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[My confession is that I do not live near Ohio and I am ridiculously freaked out by this "exotic animal" thing.  WTF is wrong with me?]]>
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        <title>WTF happened on ML today?</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 16:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>malibu5880</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>I lurk over there once in a while when TIP is slow (um, like a LOT, lately), and some troll started posting personal information on multiple boards and apparently emailed LTP at a personal email. There are a couple TIP regs I wouldn't mind being FB friends with, but then I see something like that and it makes me feel all weirded out. </p>&#13;
<p>Do people seriously have nothing better to do with their time? That's just creepy. I don't think there's anything that anyone could say to me on an internet message board that would make me feel like I had to exact some kind of weird personal revenge on them and start posting private information about them. </p>]]>
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        <title>Has anyone here done a short sale on their home?</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7494046/has-anyone-here-done-a-short-sale-on-their-home</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 10:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>Audg</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[I'm facing a divorce in the near future and owe more on my home than its worth (about 20k) ... I have an appt to go speak to an atty, but not til next wk.  If you've done a short sale, can you give me some tips/advice?  Tx!!]]>
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        <title>How to get past addiction with an addict?</title>
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        <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 03:47:36 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>spainy17</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>I posted a similar post on Starting Over but I am a lurker here and think that you all give good honest advice so here goes...</p>&#13;
<p>I am a binge drinker.  I do not drink often but when I do I have a hard time controlling how many I have and this has led to many stupid acts on my part.  I have been working on this for some time now and have really cut back (for example, I have been drunk twice since July to put it in persepective).  </p>&#13;
<p>My being drunk causes HELL with my husband.  His mother is an alcoholic and he has zero tolerance for me when I drink.  If I get overly drunk I pay for it for days from him.  This is 100 percent the reason why I am trying to quit. </p>&#13;
<p>However, my husband is an alcoholic that is in complete denial.  He drinks 3-6 nights a week and gets drunk often.  He has done just as many stupid things as I have and been just as present in our drunken fights.  He does not see this.  He thinks he is just fine and does not have a problem.  He will not stop going to the bar and he has no interest in trying to have a sober life with me.  I am completely aware of my shortcomings and when I talk about them to him he has nothing to say for himself, just goes on and on about how I have a problem and how I need help. </p>&#13;
<p>I am really wondering if we can survive this.  I know that I could stay sober easily if I had him by my side, but I am bound to F-up if he continues drinking out all of the time - I mean there are only so many times I can watch him get drunk without thinking I can just do it too.  I am so scared that I am going to have to ask him to choose me or the bottle because I think I might lose.  How can someone be in such denial of their own behavior?  Battling addiction is hard enough without having your nose rubbed in it - it's like taking a fat kid to a bakery and telling him not to taste anything!  </p>&#13;
<p>Anyway, I am rambling but any advice or swift kicks in the ass would be appreciated.  Thanks. </p>]]>
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        <title>Remember how hard you thought life was at 20?</title>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 14:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
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        <dc:creator>hindsight's_a_biotch</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[bwahahahaha!]]>
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        <title>Tell me about your favorite new show on TV</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7491282/tell-me-about-your-favorite-new-show-on-tv</link>
        <pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 17:20:26 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>gaultry</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>or shows you think have gotten better.  I will need more things to keep me occupied</p>&#13;
<p> </p>&#13;
<p>Episodes on hulu or huluplus get you a beej from me</p>&#13;
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        <title>S/O Work, randoms</title>
        <link>https://thenest.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/7495070/s-o-work-randoms</link>
        <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 13:37:51 +0000</pubDate>
        <category>Trouble in Paradise</category>
        <dc:creator>Motzie</dc:creator>
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        <description><![CDATA[<p>Another division director just came looking for my boss and when he wasn't in his office called him an "Overgrown Viking Looking M@therfvcker" and then turned back to me to say, "Oh no, not you, you're like a perfect vision of Nazi Germany" (or something to that effect because he was kinda muttering). <img src="http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-7.gif" alt="Tongue Tied" srcset="http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-7.gif 300w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-7.gif 600w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-7.gif 800w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-7.gif 1200w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-7.gif 1600w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-7.gif 2000w, http://community.thenest.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-7.gif" sizes="100vw" /></p>&#13;
<p>And somehow I dragged a wedding picture into a presentation folder, must have been yesterday when i was closing out. Thankfully I caught it right before we put everything on disc for the client. That would have been embarassing. </p>]]>
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