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Re: Does Anyone Read She's Becoming Doughmesstic?
the password is dobler
shocker he cheated again(this time in their house while her son was sleeping and she wa sout of town), she kicked him out this time... but I am starting to get a vibe she will take him back again...
You know, I was wondering about her. I haven't read in a LONG time. I want to read again...she's changing her password tomorrow.
HE CHEATED AGAIN!?!?!?! No way!!! Poor girl...she better leave his sorry asss and never let him come back! UGH...I don't understand why people cheat. If you don't want to be in the relationship, GET OUT!
i really think she has very little self worth....how long willl she put up with this?!? shes teaching her son that this is an okay way to treat women...
Right and he said "he had to face th emusic!" WTF and her mom told her to invite him double WTF there!
I havent read since she found out that he cheated again. Anyone have the link to the new stuff?
I feel bad for her and her son. She needs to get out and needs to know she is more then that. Like Stacey said, why cheat? If you dont want to be in it anymore, then go.
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http://www.doughmesstic.net/category/betrayal/
here you go...
when i read that i was like WFT jaw hit the floor!!
It's easy for us to sit here and say she should leave him on the door and all that jazz, but unless we've walked a mile in her shoes I think the negative comments (not from you guys, but the comments on her blog and stuff, the real NASTY ones) should be stopped...
If you don't have kids, walking away from a marriage where cheating has happened is hard.. When you have children, it is going to be 100x's harder. It's not as easy as Get out and don't come back. There is a LOT more to consider.
I dunno, I can understand her feelings on it having been there in the past..
I can't say I know what I would do in this situation but bet your asss if I was cheated on once, I'd consider leaving but not 100% sure I would but if he did it twice, I'd be gone in a heartbeat. No if and's or but's about it. He'll never learn if there aren't consequences just like a child won't learn without them.
If he didn't learn after the 1st time and did it again, who says he won't continue doing it the whole time they are married??
I pretty much agree Stacy, but some of those people are bein really nasty towards her. I feel bad for her because as much of a jerk he is, she really loves him. I agree that I probably wouldn't stick around after time 2 because he obviously doesn't care enough about me to make it work but it still makes me feel bad for her because some people really think they could work things out after all that.... I just hope she does what is best for her and Seven, and I don't think it is anyones place to say what that is ya know...
I have talked to her a few time son facebook the first time and I told her only you know what is best for you and I 100% believe that. But I am sorry this guy was still calling/ chatting/ communicating with the other women and all under the pretense of "closure". Really I don't think so... I have been in a cheating relationship granted I was not married and we did not have kids but I got the hell out of there and believe you me it was not easy.... I was all alone in Cali and had to organize the entire thing with my family's, who was here, help. All while trying to not let jerk off (my ex) find out I was planning this. All for my own safety. Being that he was verbally abusive I didn't want to chance it turning physical.
Being that he did it again and in their house while their son was sleeping is a whole new low... and she is obviously concerned for her safety hence the letters and keeping her door locked at all times....
If I were in her shoes I might have tired to work it out the first time... the second time I am sorry no dice you are out especially if you are putting my/our children in harms way. I don't think I have said anything harsh on here and if so I apologize this is just something that is really close to my heart since there seems to be some emotional abuse going on here in her case... I know all to well what that can do to a person and I fear it will only get worse if she takes him back
Oh, I wasn't defending their comments at all. I actually haven't even seen the bad ones. I do feel bad for her for what he's done to her and their child. It's sad and it sucks....I wouldn't wish it upon anyone.
I know its harder once you have kids...but her child is still very young right? She needs to get out NOW before her child knows any different. He is NEVER going to change. Kids or not (and I have 2) if my DH cheated...END.OVER.DONE.NO SECOND CHANCES. You just cant repair that kind of damaged IMO. Poor girl, I'm sorry this is happening to her,,,but honestly she's flat out DUMB if she stays. PERIOD.
DD #1 {04-19-2004}
Secondary IF: Severe MFI (low testosterone, low count, low morph, & very low motility) & Annovulation
After 22 months IUI # 3 Clomid + Follistim = BFP
DD #2 {12-31-2009}
2 more years of failed IF treatments and a failed adoption TTC #3
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