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I had sex.

with a condom last night!!! Tongue Tied  I felt like a teenager.  weirrrrrrd.

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  • Good girl!

    I was just thinking how weird my re-entry into sex is going to be again. I will have been on pelvic rest for 20 weeks, plus then recovery time of 6 weeks by the time I get to hump again. Then we have to go back to using condoms while I have leaky boobs and a c section scar. Gee I can't wait! Indifferent

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  • ugh. the idea of using a condom makes me not want to have sex.
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  • I have never done this. I'm kind of curious about what it feels like. Somehow I don't think Dh would be into trying it just for fun. ;)
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  • we have sex with condoms on all the time. I wish we didn't have to use condoms :(((
  • imageStellasmom:
    I have never done this. I'm kind of curious about what it feels like. Somehow I don't think Dh would be into trying it just for fun. ;)

    it felt the same for me. we used condoms for almost 6 years.  

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  • imageStellasmom:
    I have never done this. I'm kind of curious about what it feels like. Somehow I don't think Dh would be into trying it just for fun. ;)

    you would probably make it .09 seconds and demand he take it off.

    it freaking sucks.

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  • We are currently using them while I decide if I am going back on BCP for another few years until we TTC #2.  I don't really want to, yet I don't think we can do a few more years of condoms.  A few months has been more than enough for H.  It does feel like HS again since DH and I sed them then.

    And Mirena, etc. freaks me out for some irrational reason.

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  • I'm allergic to condoms.  I would have been more slutty without that allergy.
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  • I was totally going to tease you about baby #4 upon reading the title.
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  • We used to use condoms all the time, because I went off birth control a while back, it wreaked havoc on my libido... For the past 6 months, we've been using NFP for TTA, working pretty well. My cycle is very regular and predictable, though.
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    ....and I am pregnant.

     

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  • that is all we have done since having kids since hormonal BC does not agree with me. The one time we didn't, and when I thought I was in the safe zone, I got pregnant with K. 
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    imageStellasmom:
    I have never done this. I'm kind of curious about what it feels like. Somehow I don't think Dh would be into trying it just for fun. ;)

    you would probably make it .09 seconds and demand he take it off.

    it freaking sucks.

    agreed. also they are squeaky and smell funny. do not like. 

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    imageStellasmom:
    I have never done this. I'm kind of curious about what it feels like. Somehow I don't think Dh would be into trying it just for fun. ;)

    it felt the same for me. we used condoms for almost 6 years.  

    This. We've used condoms for almost 3 years. I can't usual hormonal BC because my medication makes it ineffective in preventing pregnancy and as a bonus it screws with my already messed up period. The year I was on hormonal BC was pretty awful. 

  • i agree that the actual sex with a condom is awful.  HOWEVER, there is something to be said for being able to roll over and go to sleep without a major, leaky clean-up effort 
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  • You know what a bigger buzzkill than condoms are....babies lol. I am with cleo, one oops pregnancy and you get pretty hypervigilant real quick.

     I am getting an iud, we will probably use condoms for a bit, i will nurse and h is getting the snip snip this year. I think we are good. :-) 

  • Well you have had three children. Presumably you have had it at least three times.

     

    lol

    congrats on getting back in the swing of things.

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    i agree that the actual sex with a condom is awful.  HOWEVER, there is something to be said for being able to roll over and go to sleep without a major, leaky clean-up effort 

    what was awful about it? the smell of the condom or the feel of it? i guess we got really used to the smell, so that didn't bother us after a while. and i never felt a difference w/ or w/out. maybe my vagina isn't sensitive enough.  

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    You know what a bigger buzzkill than condoms are....babies lol. I am with cleo, one oops pregnancy and you get pretty hypervigilant real quick.

     I am getting an iud, we will probably use condoms for a bit, i will nurse and h is getting the snip snip this year. I think we are good. :-) 

    H will be getting snipped this year too.  We will still use condoms until he is totally swimmer free.  Honestly, sex doesn't really feel different to me, especially with ultra thin condoms out there. I don't know, they are not a big deal to us.

    I was in shock for a good month after learning I was pregnant this time. lol 

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  • I really don't mind condoms that much.  The ribbed ones add some friction and no cleanup on my end is a big plus.
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  • imagemissusbee:

    agreed. also they are squeaky and smell funny. do not like. 

    Squeaky?!?  What brand are you usin'?  Try some lube?  Maybe some scented/flavored lube to cover the smell?  WALLA!  :-)

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    imagemissusbee:

    agreed. also they are squeaky and smell funny. do not like. 

    Squeaky?!?  What brand are you usin'?  Try some lube?  Maybe some scented/flavored lube to cover the smell?  WALLA!  :-)

    yeah - I laughed hard at that.  

    I've had three kids... I wish I would squeak.  lol

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  • We have to use condoms whenever DH is in chemotherapy and they're just horrible.  I hate everything about them.  I don't even like to put them on DH because they feel sooo gross.

    Another reason to say F*CK YOU Cancer!

     

  • imageILOVECHOCOLATEFOREVER:
    we have sex with condoms on all the time. I wish we didn't have to use condoms :(((
    Me too. Condoms suck! Raw dog is the way!
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