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I suck at saving! DH and I got approved for a really good mortgage to afford all the house we need in our desired are. Trouble is, we have NO savings and we make too much to get approved for a lot of those first time homebuyer programs 
We'd like to buy within a year or less, but, realistically I don't think we can save enough for the downpayment and closing costs in that amount of time.
Advice?
Re: Downpayment saving tips?
you need to actually do a budget and take a look at where you are blowing money.
My husband and I did this before our wedding to see where we could save.
Turns out we were spending over $400 a month eating out!! We decided that we would rather go out to one nice dinner a month and spend $100 and skip all the taverns and nachos at the local pub, and cook in. It's actually been nice to spend more time together in.
Sometimes we do "splurge" and get take out sandwiches or chinese but we usually split and order and bulk it up with what we have at home (making a salad to go on the side etc).
WE have cut our "eating out costs" to about $150 a month. That's $250 in savings alone.
BE CAREFUL HERE! The bank is more than happy to lend you more than is sensible or affordable. If you cannot save for a downpayment, you most likely are not ready for homeownership --- it is MUCH, MUCH more than the mortgage payment. In addition to downpayment and closing costs you also need inspection, moving costs, start up deposits, repairs/renovation, furniture/appliances/decorating, lawn care items. AND still have an emergency savings in place (stuff happens - water heater dies, roof leaks, etc). I highly recommend keeping your housing costs (mortgage+PMI+insurance+taxes+utilities+HOA) to no more than 25-28% of your TAKEHOME pay.
Set up a budget NOW. Pretend you are in that nice house you want to buy and budget for the amount you would pay for mortgage, taxes, insurance and utilities (which are much more than a rental) . Subtract what you pay for rent and save the difference after you pay your current rent. See how that feels financially. Do you have to make lifestyle changes to make it work? Why you are finding out this information - you are also gaining savings.
Pay of consumer debt
Track your spending. EVERY dollar. Know where your money is going. Do this for several months. Cut back on non-essential spending. Take on second PT jobs and save that income.
Thanks guys!
I've made a budget, we calculated that buying would actually be cheaper than renting. I know I haven't factored in repairs etc. I have a PT job and all of it goes directly into savings. We cut all unnecessary expenses like netflix, etc. and negotiated our utility bills to be lower. I'm paying off credit card debt, which is perhaps why I can't save. I guess it just takes time...
I guess I should stop ordering sushi and stop drinking wine to save a bit too
Some things I have done to save in general:
Canceled cable all together. We only have netflix for $8/month. We have been this way for over a year and neither of us misses TV. Saved $80/month.
We don't have a home phone, only cells. $50 savings monthly
I make my coffee at home each morning and put it in a travel mug-Keurig paid for itself after 2 months and I now spend .40 per cup of coffee vs. $2/cup.
I bring my lunch to work rather than buy it there. About $140/month savings.
At times, I have touched up my hair color at home rather than going to the salon. I don't always do it, but is saves $80 that I normally would spend about every 3 months.
I buy 90% of grocerys at the cheap grocery store (which has off brands and much less of a selection). I only go to teh major store for extras that i can't get at the cheap store. No idea if you have an option like this where you are.
I work out at home rather than paying for a gym membership.
When my paycheck comes in, I have budgeted a certain amount for savings that i transfer the same day I am paid. I am not allowed to touch that money.
Once I paid off my credit card in full, I made a rule to never use it unless I had a very specific need and a payment plan to pay it off quickly (I've had no credit card debt for 8 years now that has lasted for more than 2 months)
Neither my husband or I have ever owned a new car. We only buy used and it saves a ton of money.
I bought 50% of the house that the bank said I could afford-did this in case my husband or i was every laid off so that 1 of us could afford the mortgage in a worst case scenerio. I know you are saving to buy right now, but when you do, consider not spending the whole budget that you can technically afford.