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Ugly bridesmaid dress update :)

Ok, the dress actually got worse....now it's 3 inches below the knee and all the way to the floor in the back....like it wasn't bad enough going to our heel now we have to worry about tripping on the stupid tail.....and to top it all off her taylor quoted her $85 for the hem b/c the dress has 4 layers and that's not including anything else.

I refuse to pay $85 for a hem!!!  I still need it taked in around the bust and cups put in.....it's gonna cost me $100 for alternations and I already paid $180 for the ugly dress.  I did call Rose Lafferty and it would probably cost me $85 total for the hem, cups and taking it in through her.  I"m so pissed and can't imagine asking my girls to do this when I could tell them to do a straight hem for $25

Re: Ugly bridesmaid dress update :)

  • What if your seamstress "accidentally" hemmed it all one length under the knee?? 
  • Ditto Deanna.  That sounds terrible and wayyy to expensive.  Ugh.

  • That is awful! Definitely use Rose - she's wonderful and affordable. She did my wedding gown and my mom & grandmom's dresses.
  • I thought about this already but I don't want her to get mad....I did send her a text saying that I was quoted only $25 for a straight hem and a lot more for the two different lengths to see what she says.....what I really want to tell her is I refuse to spend that much on a hem and that I'm just gonna go straight with mine.  When she called and told me, I told her that's insane to pay that much but she didn't say much.  I get that you have to do what the bride wants with the dresses but I can't imagine asking someone to pay that!!!  I'm gonna have my dog chew the bottom of the dress off :)

     Oh and Deanna....your dog is so cute!!!!

  • In your shoes, I'd prob conspire with the other bmaids and find a tactful way to ask her to allow you to have the option of hemming, or not.
  • I don't think I could be a BM for a bride like that.  She's insane and unreasonable.  Have you tried talking to any of the other BMs?  They have to think it's just as horrible as you do!
  • I'm having such issues picturing how this dress will look nice.  So it's a mullet dress?  Can't you all approach her with the issue and put the blame fully on the cost of alterations?  Say that it would have been different if it is strictly a size issue with alterations, but now the dress is being completely altered and you didn't budget that much money for her wedding, especially while planning your own. 

    Thanks for the pup compliment.  She is in time out right now for chewing off one of my bra straps.

  • I agree with eb.  I understand doing what the bride wants, we have all been brides or will be, but not that it is costing you so much I would just let her know that finiacially not possible unless she is willing to pay the difference.
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  • Every time you post about these dresses, I invision the bridesmaids dresses from My Big Fat Greek Wedding! ?LOL!
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  • imageJohnNDeanna:

    So it's a mullet dress? ?

    ?

    LOL! ?I almost spit my coffee out!! ?LOL!?

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  • Please, please either post a pic, link or model number so I can see this dress.
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  • imagecptnmorgan710:
    Please, please either post a pic, link or model number so I can see this dress.

     

    Ditto CptM... did you ever post a pic or style #?  I want to see too!

  • She did post a link not too long ago, and the dress itself isn't awful - it's the 'mullet' hem! Hopefully she can post the link again so you get a real feel for the whole picture. :)
  • Deanna- lmao at mullett dress!  Party in the front, church in the back
  • So its basically going to look like this?

    http://www.davidsbridal.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplayView?storeId=10052&catalogId=10051&categoryId=-49998974&currentIdx=49&subCategory=-49998976%7c-49998975%7c-49998974&catentryId=1000108 

     Hideous. A hi-low hem is one thing and can look cute. but not when it goes floor length. And certainly not when that's not how the dress was designed. Did you order these dresses yet? Why is she playing Project Runway with them? It seems it would be much easier to find something the way she wants than to "create" it.

  • Love the mullet dress comment.
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  • LOL, I love the mullet dress comment....that's what I'm going to refer to it as from now on :)  The reason she is doing this is b/c she couldn't find the dress in the color peach with the mullet hem.

    As far as saying something...there are 8 bridesmaids and me and my sister are the soon to be sister in laws and everyone else is her friends or sister so I feel like saying something would be bad b/c it's coming from me.

    Here's the dress:

    http://www.rayliadesigns.com/gallerydetails.asp?main_id=1125&sname=&cname=MAIDS&cat_id=28&subcat_id=0

    Now picture it in peach, with a mullet Crying
     

  • That's just wrong on so many levels.  And you all have to have matching shoes too right?
  • Silver shoe, no peach thank god!!!   My FI is in it too and he's scared she's gonna have them wear peach vests under their tux. 
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