May 2007 Weddings
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So......

Should we find out on Wed or be surprised?[Poll]
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Re: So......

  • I say to find out...but wait to tell people. Who would it not make happy if you didn't find out?
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  • imageflyer1982:
    I say to find out...but wait to tell people. Who would it not make happy if you didn't find out?

    This is what I'd do.  I'd like to find out someday, but not tell anyone (like tell everyone that we hadn't found out.)

  • imageflyer1982:
    I say to find out...but wait to tell people. Who would it not make happy if you didn't find out?

    It would not make my MIL or mh's aunt happy.  We are to the point that mil has brought it up so much, we are both leaning towards not finding out.  Spiteful I know.  And I know that's wrong. 

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    imageflyer1982:
    I say to find out...but wait to tell people. Who would it not make happy if you didn't find out?
    It would not make my MIL or mh's aunt happy.  We are to the point that mil has brought it up so much, we are both leaning towards not finding out.  Spiteful I know.  And I know that's wrong. 

    Wow that MIL of yours! Well it's really what you want...so you could find out and keep it a secret. Or decide not to find out but as the u/s tech to write it down for you and seal it in an envelope...just incase you change your mind. More power to you if you decide you can wait to find out! There was no way I could make it until June without knowing what I was having! LOL!

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  • I think we are going to have the u/s tech seal it in an envelope.  And this way we have it if we decide we want to find out or we can rip it up. 
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  • I think having them seal it is a great idea, what if you give it to a friend for safe keeping?

    I found out with both of mine, but i'm a bit of a control freak, i also scheduled their births, so there was no way I was going to wait. I know people who have done it both ways, i think it should be a decision you and your hubs makes, no one else! 

  • I could never hold out until June...especially with twins!  Having the tech write it down and put it in an envelope sounds like a good compromise.
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