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My Doc Appt.

We got good news & bad news today.

Good news is that baby is doing well and everything is measuring as it should. The baby's heartbeat is in the 160's and it sounded wonderful! :) We won't get an ultrasound until 18-20 weeks when we find out the gender.

Bad news is that I run a high risk of having a C-section due to my pelvic bone being flat and not curving like it is supposed to. The doctor said that there is still a change I could deliver naturally but it doesn't look good. She said that she would tell me now so I could prepare instead of being 34-36 weeks along and finding this out. Needless to say I'm freaking out and I'm very very scared of this. I'm trying to stay positive about it.

Good news - the baby looks good! :)

Re: My Doc Appt.

  • Don't freak about the c-section.  The good news is you get to pick your baby's birthday!  My sis had one vaginal and 2 c-sections and said that the c-sections really weren't that bad comparatively speaking. SO it will be ok! 
  • I'm so happy that the baby is doing well!!!! :)

    I have to have a c-section too.  I know how disappointing it is to find that out.  I really wanted to deliver naturally.  I read a lot of stories of twin pregnancies being delivered naturally.  And it was disappointing when my dr said their practice does c-sections for all multiple births and will not consider delivering naturally.  I'm hoping that things change for you and you are able to deliver naturally.  But a c-section wont be so bad.  Like Mandy said, you can pick your baby's bday.  I know a few women that have had them and they recovered fine and were up and around in no time.  But I know what you mean about feeling disappointed.  I felt that way for a few weeks.

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  • Hey - its good news.  Don't worry about the C-section.  The good news about that is you don't have to worry about all the horror stories you hear of women having natural births ("OMG, I had 34 hours of BACK LABOR!!!")  And you know what's coming.  No surprises the day of: you know WHEN (which is nice that you can plan for it), you know where, you can PLAN for this.  Smile
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    Hey - its good news.  Don't worry about the C-section.  The good news about that is you don't have to worry about all the horror stories you hear of women having natural births ("OMG, I had 34 hours of BACK LABOR!!!")  And you know what's coming.  No surprises the day of: you know WHEN (which is nice that you can plan for it), you know where, you can PLAN for this.  Smile

    Or some of the other horror stories!  (Sorry Kristin if you're delivering naturally...if you are, don't think about the horror stories!)

    This is great news...just a tiny little bit of not-so-expected news, but still good!

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  • I'm so happy to hear the baby is doing well! That's great news :)

    And everyone is right it won't be so bad if you have to have a c-section. There is a chance I might have to have one as well if my placenta doesn't rise. The recovery time is a little longer and it is surgery but doctors perform c-sections all the time. My SIL had one with my niece and is getting ready to have one on Friday with my nephew and she tells me they aren't that bad. The benefit is the being able to plan your baby's arrival into the world! So it won't be that bad! I think Caro had a c-section with Cate so you could details about it from her.

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  • Im so glad the baby is doing well :) I agree with the others youll get to pick the date which will be great. Like Paula said at least you wont have to go through all of that labor. Theres always a positive side to it :)
  • I'm glad to hear that the baby is doing great!  I can't wait to find out what you are having.

    Take it from me C-Sections aren't that bad, I promise!!  I was up within 18 hours of having Cate, they say thats the trick, the sooner you get up (within reason) the better you feel.  My recovery wasn't bad after that, just try hard not to sneeze or cough, that's when the pain really sets in.  I think the worst part for me was getting into the shower, I had to sit down on a seat and have John help me but I felt so much better for it, it was worth the struggle.

    The morning that I was due to have Catherine, I had a good breakfast, went and had my hair done (more to keep my mind off things, but to look good in pictures too Stick out tongue) and then went for a little walk.  My SIL who delivered naturally ended up with a 4th degree tear, that recovery was A LOT worse than my C-Section.

    If you girls have any questions or concerns let me know, I was really disapointed when we were told that I couldn't deliver Cate naturally but I think I'd opt for another C-section over a VBAC the next time around.  Oh and my scar has almost faded.

  • Thanks everyone for the reassurance - it's made me feel a little better about the situation.

    Caro - I'll be keeping your e-mail handy for questions! :)

  • Take it from me, the tearing down below is not fun!  Because I didn't have time for the Epi, they had to give me a local a few times down there before they started sewing.  Also, I was shaking so bad from just giving birth (natural reaction) that I was afraid she was going to mess up.  I think that scared me much more because I was afraid to use the bathroom and possibly rip out stiches.

    ON a happier note, I'm blad the baby is doing well

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  • I almost had a heart attack when your facebook status read everything happens for a reason!! I am glad that it is just about the c-section (well not glad, but considering what went through my mind this is better!!) I also had a c-section. It was not bad at all. The worst part was that they could not get an iv in me so it took 5 tries!! Caro is right, the sooner you are up and moving the better. The day after kind of sucked-I am not going to lie or sugar coat it for you. I looked at my friend and growled "Never have a c-section" and kind of traumatized her, but it got better and better everyday. Looking back now it was really not that bad. Just the unknown feeling of how long I might be uncomfortable. I had one because Logan was breech and on the bottom. My hospital does not do VBAC and my Dr only delivers at my hospital so it will be another c-section for me if we have any more. I am ok with this and would do the c-section again no problem. Please let me know if you want more details or have any questions!
  • I'm with Mrs. Towny, I freaked out when I saw your faceboook status and ran here to make sure everything was ok.

    I have heard from many people that c-sections are not that bad! I am so happy your baby is doing good!

  • I am glad to hear that the baby is doing well. I didn't know you guys were going to find out...how exciting. Don't worry too much about the c-section possibility...things could change like you said.
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