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Argh. Mind your own! (Long)

So I wasn't sure if I was overreacting to this or not, but either way, sharing helps.  This friend of my husbands is a moron anyways, but I "liked" a stroller on FB and this comment (shortened) followed:

Are you guys trying to have a baby now? It will happen soon if you guys are, it took me 6 months with Katie after I stopped my BC. We have been trying for baby 2 and still hasn't worked out, going on 3 months. Doctors told my SIL she was unable to have kids but with the help of docs and tests, she's pregnant. So it is possible. Stay positive and when the timing is right it will happen for you guys. G'luck finding a new one.. what are you looking for? Well if you ever want together for Lunch I am home with Katie 95% of the time through out the week. MT's we have play group but WTF's we are open unless my Mom wants to meet on TH/F which happens every other month. Anyhow. Enjoy and relax and distress. Have a good day.

She makes me so mad. She doesn't know we've been trying for over a year, but it's just so rude. And what especially kills me is that she already has a kid (they tried and were pregnant *presto*) (she bitches that it was too soon after they got married like she was pressured or something) and now she's upset that it's taking three months to get pregnant with another. She makes me want to scream. The last part I left for you just to show how loony she is with scheduling shit. Vent. Now I feel better, thanks.

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       Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                              Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                      IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
        Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
     

Re: Argh. Mind your own! (Long)

  • I'm sorry. I wouldn't know how to respond to that. But I found this part amusing: "Enjoy and relax and distress." I do not think that word means what she thinks it means...
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    DX: Subclinical Hypothyroidism
    BFP #1: 11/21/2011. EDD: 8/4/2012. Missed M/C & D&C at 11w6d: 1/20/2012.
    BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.
    BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.
    BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
    BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
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  • Apollo11235Apollo11235 member
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    "distress." I do not think that word means what she thinks it means...
    lol, I'm thinking she's a little confused...

    I'm sorry @ssly23. That's just rude/awkward of her to be making assumptions and posting all that publicly.

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    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • She just posted that to your FB wall? I'd be annoyed.
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  • She just posted that to your FB wall? I'd be annoyed.
    This. If she just had to ask you about it, that's way too personal to put on a wall. Also, I hate when people say, "It'll happen soon." They have no idea what might be going on.
  • I would be annoyed and I would be blocking her.

    But it sounds to me that she somehow knows some of your TTC background.  Are you sure DH didn't mention something to her.  It just sounds like she made an awful lot of assumptions in her post. 
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  • That's shitty of her. 
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  • I would be annoyed and I would be blocking her.

    But it sounds to me that she somehow knows some of your TTC background.  Are you sure DH didn't mention something to her.  It just sounds like she made an awful lot of assumptions in her post. 

    I specifically asked him when he got home, bc I was pretty pissed. He swears he didn't say anything other than I quit my job due to crazy stress.

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                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • I'm sorry. I wouldn't know how to respond to that. But I found this part amusing: "Enjoy and relax and distress." I do not think that word means what she thinks it means...
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    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
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  • Yeahhhhhh.... gotta love the Fertile Myrtles running around "Oh, its sooo easy youll get pregnant right away!" or in this case "I cant believe its taken 3 months for this one!" STFU. Seriously. I love how she took you liking a stroller to be reason to post something so personal to your wall!!! I would seriously consider A) hiding all her posts and B) putting her into the "acquaintances" group and that way she cant see all your posts because hello? Stalker much?! "Oh, she liked a stroller let me put her on blast about getting pregnant cuz, you know, thats not uber personal or anything"... Some people... SMH
    28 y/o F. Off BCP since 2008. TTC for 2 years, no success. Stopped for almost three years, starting again hoping for different results. :)http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2547ab
  • She just posted that to your FB wall? I'd be annoyed.
    exactly what I was thinking!
  • She just posted that to your FB wall? I'd be annoyed.


    This would just make me angry. I would've deleted the post and sent her a message on how rude it is for her to post that on a public sight. If you wanted people to know about it then you would've posted something yourself.

    Why is it so difficult for people to mind their own?

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • That was really rude and presumptuous of her. Sorry that happened to you. I'd be pissed.

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    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • "</<blockquote class="Quote"> LuckyAngel07 said:
    I'm sorry. I wouldn't know how to respond to that. But I found this part amusing: "Enjoy and relax and distress." I do not think that word means what she thinks it means...
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    Fucking love it!

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • Yeahhhhhh.... gotta love the Fertile Myrtles running around "Oh, its sooo easy youll get pregnant right away!" or in this case "I cant believe its taken 3 months for this one!" STFU. Seriously. I love how she took you liking a stroller to be reason to post something so personal to your wall!!! I would seriously consider A) hiding all her posts and B) putting her into the "acquaintances" group and that way she cant see all your posts because hello? Stalker much?! "Oh, she liked a stroller let me put her on blast about getting pregnant cuz, you know, thats not uber personal or anything"... Some people... SMH

    Yup. She's a goner. That was strike three. DELETED!

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • People have no filter.

    TTC since May 2010. DX Unexplained IF.  IUI #1 in August 2012. Clomid, Menopur plus Ovidrel. BFN.  IUI #2 in September 2012.  Clomid, Menopur plus Ovidrel.  BFN. IUI #3 in October 2012. BFN.  IVF in April/May 2013: BFP.  Due February 2, 2014 Thank you God!

     

  • That's crazy. People can be so dumb...

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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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