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Really Disappointed
Last week I had received a letter in the mail from school stating that, because I need to follow universal health precautions, they could not promise I would get into a practice/clinic for internship. As you may remember, I have hep C. I didn't realize what a huge problem this would be. How was I to know? I had spoken with my hygentist and she said it wouldn't be a problem. My own doctor even said it wouldn't be a problem! So, naturally, I feel mislead. I have spoken with the dean of the department (Nursing and Allied Health) and she has been really great and understanding. She looked into finding out if any practices/clinics they have a contract with would take me (they have 10). Four of them got back and said I was wlecome, but could not work on anyone. This is obviously a major problem, as I need to work on a human to pass exams. So I am not going to school. In the end, I cannot work in healthcare. Period.
I am beyond frustrated and overwhelmed right now. I am devastated and have no idea where to go from here. I have given my notice to work, and my last day is the 24th. I have already begun my second/new job. I just don't know what to do. A part of me says stay where I am and work the 2nd job (I could use the money). But I hate my commute with a passion (it's 32 mi each way and a solid hour each way, sometimes more. And it's all stop and go traffic). I am considering finding another job closer to home, like in a bank as a teller, and keep the new job I have. I really need a short commute! My new job might let me pick up more hours. I am so confused and I have hit a brick wall as hard as I possibly can. And on top of all this confusion, I really want a baby. I could cry right now.
Any advice?
Re: Really Disappointed
I am so sorry that you are going through all this right now! I wish that there was something I could say or do to make everything better. Sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers to you!
Could you do something like medical billing? That way you are still in the medical field but yet not exactly interacting with patients. Or even in a doctors office as a receptionist. I know these aren't ideal but at least you could still stay in the field. I hope you find something soon.
Melissa, I'm so sorry! At least you weren't already in school and didn't spend more money (I'm trying to find some silver lining for you!)
Could you ask the Dean if she could recommend any programs which might be a better fit? Otherwise, I would take this opportunity to shorten your commute (assuming money's not an issue with a new job) and take some time to figure things out.
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