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Really!?!

I had a new employee ask me if I had children this morning.  When I said no she responded, "You better get started, you don't have much time left." .... Im 29.  Really!?!

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What's your 'really!?!' moment of the day?

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TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
Nestie Besties with Nfp147 

Re: Really!?!

  • That blows! I'm home today so I don't have to deal with people's stupidity! :-)
  • WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?!

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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
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  • >:P people are idiots.
  • I hate when people do that! It's annoying and none of their business. My "really?!?" Moment is kind of silly, but I returned two books at the library and checked out two new ones. I was inside my house for less than 5 minutes when the library called to tell me that one of the books I had on hold became available. So I will be stopping by again tomorrow.
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  • Are you fucking kidding me? People are so fucking stupid!!!! I would have said something extremely rude to her. Extremely. God... what a douche! Who says that to anyone anyway?!?! Unbelievable.
    28 y/o F. Off BCP since 2008. TTC for 2 years, no success. Stopped for almost three years, starting again hoping for different results. :)http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2547ab
  • I've been given the "you're not getting any younger" line before. I was like 24 or 25 at the time. Really?! It was from DH's family...they all had children by the age of 22 I think so we're geezers at the age of 26 and not having children. Ugh.

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    Cycles 1-9: BFN
    Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
    EDD: June 25, 2014
    Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014

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  • We have an agreement with the parking ticket cops that while our building is under construction they will not give us parking tickets. I have PERSONALLY gone outside an introduced myself to the guy pointed out my car, and put a sticker in my windows with my company logo. Usually I park in the lot a block over to avoid bothering this guy but today the first day in over 10 days I was lazy and parked in the lot that my building is in and the mother f*cker just gave me a ticket!!!
    SERIOUSLY!?!? He claims he wrote my plate down from the back of the car and didn't see my sticker until he went to my registration on the front of the car! WTF man we had an agreement!!!

    Vent.. that felt good.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • Some people are so rude and honestly 29 is still so young! What is wrong with people!?

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • I'm curious to know how old she thinks I am... perhaps it is time to start using night masks lol.

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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • How annoying.  Can you fire her?  ;)
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    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

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  • Seriously?  Wrong foot girl!  What is wrong with people!!!!
    Diagnosed with Severe DOR at 31 years old (AMH .14 FSH 9.8) 
    D & L are here at 34 weeks 4 days by vaginal and breech delivery on 11/19/2013

  • You should have kicked her in the crotch.
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    TTC #1 since 9/12
  • edited August 2013
    Xan921 said:

    I had a new employee ask me if I had children this morning.  When I said no she responded, "You better get started, you don't have much time left." .... Im 29.  Really!?!

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    What's your 'really!?!' moment of the day?


    Yah well, I think that's a perfect time to pull the "but we just love anal too much to do it any other way" comment out of your pocket.

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • I hate that!!!  The other response I hate is, "Do you not want kids?"  It makes me want to punch them in the face!
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    Cinnabun and Junebug say, "Go Wildcats!"

  • My response to that person would have been
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    LOL I love this so much because it is the EXACT scene I thought of in my head after I walked away from her.
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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • We have an agreement with the parking ticket cops that while our building is under construction they will not give us parking tickets. I have PERSONALLY gone outside an introduced myself to the guy pointed out my car, and put a sticker in my windows with my company logo. Usually I park in the lot a block over to avoid bothering this guy but today the first day in over 10 days I was lazy and parked in the lot that my building is in and the mother f*cker just gave me a ticket!!!
    SERIOUSLY!?!? He claims he wrote my plate down from the back of the car and didn't see my sticker until he went to my registration on the front of the car! WTF man we had an agreement!!!

    Vent.. that felt good.
    Oh f that dude.  Can he reverse it or have it thrown out for you?
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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • I'm sorry. People are absolute jerks. Also, I really like the picture you posted and I'm thinking of putting it on my FB cause that's just how I feel today.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • Xan921 said:
    We have an agreement with the parking ticket cops that while our building is under construction they will not give us parking tickets. I have PERSONALLY gone outside an introduced myself to the guy pointed out my car, and put a sticker in my windows with my company logo. Usually I park in the lot a block over to avoid bothering this guy but today the first day in over 10 days I was lazy and parked in the lot that my building is in and the mother f*cker just gave me a ticket!!!
    SERIOUSLY!?!? He claims he wrote my plate down from the back of the car and didn't see my sticker until he went to my registration on the front of the car! WTF man we had an agreement!!!

    Vent.. that felt good.
    Oh f that dude.  Can he reverse it or have it thrown out for you?
    He claims he can't. It's a hand written paper ticket I know for a fact he can.

    imageMags's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
     
    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

    ~~
    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • My response to that person would have been
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    Yes, my thoughts exactly.
    My most recent "Really?" moment regarding TTC: "It will happen. I just know it." Um, thanks, Professor Trelawney, but do you mind keeping your crystal ball predictions to yourself?
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

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    I'm sorry you had to deal with that, xan.

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • Wow, how insensitive?! None of her business to be saying anything like that. So personal! Stupid people 
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