October 2012 Weddings
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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Confession Thursday
Re: Confession Thursday
I am no longer pregnant, but SIL is. I majorly resent her. I don't want to spend time with her, I don't want to see my nephew, I want to shut her out.
I feel bad because it's not her fault in any way that I miscarried. I am happy that she is having a healthy baby and that my nephew is healthy, but I wish I lived far away so her pregnancy isn't thrown in my face daily. My brother, SIL and nephew live about 5 minutes from us and we see at least one of them every day.
I tried to explain this to my mom the other day and she told me that I was being mean and I need to get over it. I wanted to shut her out also. I feel like only H is understanding that I am grieving and it hurts.
I've also found out this week about 3 other people who are pregnant and due right around when I was supposed to be due. I try to be happy when I hear happy news, but then I go off alone and have my sad moment.
Big huge hug! >:D<
As for my mom, I would think she would be more understanding. She had a miscarriage between my brother and me. You would think she knows how I feel. I guess she moved on right away and expects me to also.
My H has been amazing with this whole thing. He grieved when a miscarriage was suspected, before it was confirmed. He has been so supportive and loving with me. It makes me love him more.