FFFC

BruinsBabe33 · August 2013

Go ahead and share 'em!

LuckyAngel07 · August 2013

I woke up with a headache. I really want to call my friend and tell her NOT to come down and visit with her 3 kids.

lilliesandvino · August 2013

I do not have a headache.

I still wouldn't want to spend time with a friend's three kids.

ILoveRedVino · August 2013

I feel like a failure of a mother. I've planned exactly zero for our loss anniversary. I had all these grand ideas of donating toys to the children's hospital or bringing little knit hats to the NICU or bringing a cookie and fruit tray to L&D nurses. All, of course, in honor of our baby. And I did nothing. I feel like I begged people to remember him and then I planned nothing to keep the memory alive.

Sewilson33 · August 2013

I am sitting at my desk trying to coach myself into believing if I don't think about AF then she won't come... then 30 minutes later I think I feel "wet" and run to the bathroom and there's no AF. Then I replay the whole coaching in my head again. Like this will somehow work...

LuckyAngel07 · August 2013

((hugs)) @ILoveRedVino. You're not a failure. I can't imagine how overwhelming the emotions of loss are, but even a little negative emotion sends all my best-laid plans of productivity out the window. Don't beat yourself up too much.

nfp147 · August 2013

ILoveRedVino said:

I feel like a failure of a mother. I've planned exactly zero for our loss anniversary. I had all these grand ideas of donating toys to the children's hospital or bringing little knit hats to the NICU or bringing a cookie and fruit tray to L&D nurses. All, of course, in honor of our baby. And I did nothing. I feel like I begged people to remember him and then I planned nothing to keep the memory alive.

You are not a failure. You don't have to do something to prove that you remember him.

You could still do something - it doesn't have to be on the exact day. No one would fault you for "missing" the date with your act of kindness.

lilliesandvino · August 2013

Exactly what @nfp147 said, ILRV.

Lots of love and support for you!

MRads · August 2013

Ditto @nfp147, ILRV

islandmonkey8 · August 2013

@ILoveRedVino

amandaf6383 · August 2013

Love you @ILoveRedVino!!

amandaf6383 · August 2013

My confession is that I might pretend to be sick so I don't have to go to my BILs house tonight.

Aimothy · August 2013

amandaf6383 said:

My confession is that I might pretend to be sick so I don't have to go to my BILs house tonight.

You have been looking a little pale lately.

sweetpotato123 · August 2013

Hugs @ILoveRedVino. I can't imagine how you're feeling but try not to be too hard on yourself.

amandaf6383 · August 2013

Aimothy said:

amandaf6383 said:

My confession is that I might pretend to be sick so I don't have to go to my BILs house tonight.

You have been looking a little pale lately.

That's what I thought! This will be me:

sweetpotato123 · August 2013

I haven't showered yet today and don't foresee it happening until at least 3.

ecinereb · August 2013

(HUGS) @ILoveRedVino. Don't beat yourself up too much, it doesn't take a grand gesture to remember.

My FFFC is that I have eaten crap all week, including gluten and dairy! I'm about to leave for vacation for a week so I don't see things changing significantly anytime soon. I've already gained 5lbs - this needs to stop now!

zamboni00 · August 2013

My confession: my mother and I are throwing a baby shower on Sunday for my SIL. I am not at all excited. In fact, the opposite. Crazy excited for my niece or nephews arrival, but not this weekend.

We were at my cousins shower just after she announced, and I seriously couldn't take being asked when we would be announcing every 3 minutes. I can't imagine what this one will be like. Ugh.

LuckyAngel07 · August 2013

((hugs)) @zamboni00. I would not want to have to deal with that. GL!

sparklingdiamond · August 2013

@ILoveRedVino Lots of hugs to you!

zamboni00 · August 2013

Thanks @LuckyAngel07. I know it's really not a big deal, and I will be fine. I just happen to be related to people who don't think before they open their mouths. %-(

wiggyslilsis · August 2013

@Iloveredvino *big squishy creepy internet hugs* You are not a bad mom. Try not to be so hard on yourself and have high expectations (easier said than done). You remember and that is what matters. He doesn't need some grand gesture, just your love!

Apollo11235 · August 2013

@ILoveRedVino: nfp hit the nail on the head. Try not to be too hard on yourself.

amccul20 · August 2013

you know what fhuck everyone! we should all be able to do what we want, not have to answer questions if we don't want, and not have to go to our BIL's houses if we don't want to!

for goodness sake its friday! if someone bothers you tell them to shove it!

GAH!

and ILRV your NOT a failure! ((HUGS))

Flamingo86 · August 2013

I am finding myself trusting the opinions of my acupuncturist more than my docs. He actually listens to me and reads my file. It's wonderful.

sparklingdiamond · August 2013

@Flamingo86 My acupuncturist is great! I agree, it feels like she actually listens to me.

amandaf6383 · August 2013

@amccul23

#1 I love you. You make me laugh.

#2 I'm not going to BILs house! I just said to DH "I have my period, the Clomid is going to make me unspeakably hot, and I want to take my bra off and spend my weekly WW allowance on ice cream and read HarryPotter". He smiled and have me a kiss and told me to have fun. Success without fibbing!!

musac15 · August 2013

My FFFC.....

I faked an orgasm this week, to make DH happy. He has insisted that perhaps we're not getting pg because I'm not "enjoying myself enough". After what seemed like an hour of ST, I couldn't take it anymore. I'm a terrible person.

I can't enjoy scheduled ST to that extent. I just can't.

ILoveRedVino · August 2013

An hour of sex sounds awful to me. I'd have faked it after 15 minutes.

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