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  • I woke up with a headache. I really want to call my friend and tell her NOT to come down and visit with her 3 kids.

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    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • I feel like a failure of a mother. I've planned exactly zero for our loss anniversary. I had all these grand ideas of donating toys to the children's hospital or bringing little knit hats to the NICU or bringing a cookie and fruit tray to L&D nurses. All, of course, in honor of our baby. And I did nothing. I feel like I begged people to remember him and then I planned nothing to keep the memory alive.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • I am sitting at my desk trying to coach myself into believing if I don't think about AF then she won't come... then 30 minutes later I think I feel "wet" and run to the bathroom and there's no AF. Then I replay the whole coaching in my head again. Like this will somehow work...

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • ((hugs)) @ILoveRedVino. You're not a failure. I can't imagine how overwhelming the emotions of loss are, but even a little negative emotion sends all my best-laid plans of productivity out the window. Don't beat yourself up too much.

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    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • I feel like a failure of a mother. I've planned exactly zero for our loss anniversary. I had all these grand ideas of donating toys to the children's hospital or bringing little knit hats to the NICU or bringing a cookie and fruit tray to L&D nurses. All, of course, in honor of our baby. And I did nothing. I feel like I begged people to remember him and then I planned nothing to keep the memory alive.
    You are not a failure.  You don't have to do something to prove that you remember him.  

    You could still do something - it doesn't have to be on the exact day.  No one would fault you for "missing" the date with your act of kindness.
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • Exactly what @nfp147 said, ILRV.

    Lots of love and support for you!
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  • Ditto @nfp147, ILRV <3
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • Love you @ILoveRedVino!!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • My confession is that I might pretend to be sick so I don't have to go to my BILs house tonight.

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • My confession is that I might pretend to be sick so I don't have to go to my BILs house tonight.
    You have been looking a little pale lately. 

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • Hugs @ILoveRedVino. I can't imagine how you're feeling but try not to be too hard on yourself.
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    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • Aimothy said:
    My confession is that I might pretend to be sick so I don't have to go to my BILs house tonight.
    You have been looking a little pale lately. 
    That's what I thought! This will be me:

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    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • I haven't showered yet today and don't foresee it happening until at least 3.  
    **Signature Warning**

    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • (HUGS) @ILoveRedVino. Don't beat yourself up too much, it doesn't take a grand gesture to remember.
     
    My FFFC is that I have eaten crap all week, including gluten and dairy! I'm about to leave for vacation for a week so I don't see things changing significantly anytime soon. I've already gained 5lbs - this needs to stop now!
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    TTC since August 2011
    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

    TTC Buddies with *noelcallum* - Congratulations!
    Knottie Besties with *SparklingDiamond* - Congratulations!
  • My confession: my mother and I are throwing a baby shower on Sunday for my SIL. I am not at all excited. In fact, the opposite. Crazy excited for my niece or nephews arrival, but not this weekend.

    We were at my cousins shower just after she announced, and I seriously couldn't take being asked when we would be announcing every 3 minutes. I can't imagine what this one will be like. Ugh.

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    Anniversary

    After 2 years of TTC, lots of tests, and a Hysteroscopy/Laparoscopy to remove several polyps,
    Clomid/IUI #1 3/14: cancelled due to surprise BFP 3/8/14.
    Beta 1 3/11: 398  Beta 2 3/13: 728  Beta 3 3/20: 11,482 
    Surprise BFP turns into Surprise Twins! 

    Zoey and Garrett born 10/24/14 at 36+3


     

  • ((hugs)) @zamboni00. I would not want to have to deal with that. GL!
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    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • @ILoveRedVino Lots of hugs to you!
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    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    ~TTC Buddies with akcrrr and amandaf6383~
    ~Knottie/Nestie Besties with *ecinereb* - Congratulations!~
    TTC since June 2011 dx: PCOS
    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
    Baby N born 5/9/14
  • Thanks @LuckyAngel07. I know it's really not a big deal, and I will be fine. I just happen to be related to people who don't think before they open their mouths. %-(

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    Anniversary

    After 2 years of TTC, lots of tests, and a Hysteroscopy/Laparoscopy to remove several polyps,
    Clomid/IUI #1 3/14: cancelled due to surprise BFP 3/8/14.
    Beta 1 3/11: 398  Beta 2 3/13: 728  Beta 3 3/20: 11,482 
    Surprise BFP turns into Surprise Twins! 

    Zoey and Garrett born 10/24/14 at 36+3


     

  • @Iloveredvino *big squishy creepy internet hugs* You are not a bad mom. Try not to be so hard on yourself and have high expectations (easier said than done). You remember and that is what matters. He doesn't need some grand gesture, just your love!
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    We Said I Do 09/06/09
    We love our Frankie Dog (5yo pit) and our Paco Kitty Dx Endo 12/09 Lupron 3/10-9/10 BFP 08/11 Bday 3/27/12 Lap Surgery 2/26/13
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  • @ILoveRedVino: nfp hit the nail on the head. Try not to be too hard on yourself. <3

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
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    you know what fhuck everyone! we should all be able to do what we want, not have to answer questions if we don't want, and not have to go to our BIL's houses if we don't want to!

    for goodness sake its friday! if someone bothers you tell them to shove it!

    GAH!

    and ILRV your NOT a failure! ((HUGS))

  • I am finding myself trusting the opinions of my acupuncturist more than my docs. He actually listens to me and reads my file. It's wonderful.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • @Flamingo86  My acupuncturist is great!  I agree, it feels like she actually listens to me.
    Anniversary 
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    ~TTC Buddies with akcrrr and amandaf6383~
    ~Knottie/Nestie Besties with *ecinereb* - Congratulations!~
    TTC since June 2011 dx: PCOS
    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
    Baby N born 5/9/14
  • My FFFC.....

    I faked an orgasm this week, to make DH happy. He has insisted that perhaps we're not getting pg because I'm not "enjoying myself enough". After what seemed like an hour of ST, I couldn't take it anymore. I'm a terrible person. 

    I can't enjoy scheduled ST to that extent. I just can't. 
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    TTC since March 2012. 

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