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It does not seem fair that

we live only to die at some point.

Re: It does not seem fair that

  • What? That makes no sense! Well, it's certainly not how I am living life.
  • This post seems totally random.  I don't feel like that.  For my family we are christians that believe there is an after life in heaven.  There must be something going on.  Are you in a funk?
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  • Yeah we all die at the end, but that's not the only reason we live. 
  • Cats, this is like your 2nd or 3rd post about death.

    Are you okay?

  • imageMommyLiberty5013:

    Cats, this is like your 2nd or 3rd post about death.

    Are you okay?

    I'm ok but I think about it here and there. It does scare me.

  • imagecatsareniice1:
    imageMommyLiberty5013:

    Cats, this is like your 2nd or 3rd post about death.

    Are you okay?

    I'm ok but I think about it here and there. It does scare me.

    It is fairly normal to wonder about it at times. But, it's something we will all eventually do - no one is exempt.

    What brings on these thoughts?

  • imageMommyLiberty5013:
    imagecatsareniice1:
    imageMommyLiberty5013:

    Cats, this is like your 2nd or 3rd post about death.

    Are you okay?

    I'm ok but I think about it here and there. It does scare me.

    It is fairly normal to wonder about it at times. But, it's something we will all eventually do - no one is exempt.

    What brings on these thoughts?

    I like living and am afraid for my life to eventually end. Also, I fear losing friends and family members. Finally, I am afraid of what afterlife will bring if there is one. I've always had these fears but it seems the older I get the more these thoughts enter my mind.

  • Have you ever seen a therapist? Over the last few years you've posted some weird *** here on the Nest, and while this can be a good place to ask about issues, it cannot take the place of a licensed therapist.
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  • imageMommyLiberty5013:
    imagecatsareniice1:
    imageMommyLiberty5013:

    Cats, this is like your 2nd or 3rd post about death.

    Are you okay?

    I'm ok but I think about it here and there. It does scare me.

    It is fairly normal to wonder about it at times. But, it's something we will all eventually do - no one is exempt.

    What brings on these thoughts?

    I like living and am afraid for my life to eventually end. Also, I fear losing friends and family members. Finally, I am afraid of what afterlife will bring if there is one. I've always had these fears but it seems the older I get the more these thoughts enter my mind.

    sometimes the fear of things is actually worse that the reality of things.  As someone who had 5 family members pass away in 3  years I have lots of experience in this :) LOL.  Once you go thru the grief process it's really not that bad as you think.  Enjoy the time right at this moment, don't worry about the future.
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  • If you are a christian, then know that with God, what comes next is better than life. If you're not a christian, I recommend attending a church service or revival to help you see the better side of life and death.
  • Yea, I understand, I think about death sometimes too, especially since my father in law and mother in law died 1 month apart and devastated my husband, made me think of my parents, myself, etc passing away. I actually completed my "Medical Power of Attorney" and other documents then, stuff people don't like to do or think about but are important.
    I would like to think there is no heaven or hell, hopefully you close eyes and that's it, sleep peacefully. I am more scared of after life (hell to be exact) being real than actually dying.
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