How do you and your s/o fight?

jjbmstinco · August 2013

Ours is about every 3-4 months everything gets bottled up. Then over about 2 days, it explodes and we can't stand it anymore. We get everything out, fight about it, and then we are good for another 3-4 months. Not the healthiest but it works. Apparently this weekend, everything is coming out.

jtmh2012 · August 2013

Ours are mostly over translation misunderstandings.

ImperiumWife · August 2013

usually I get frustrated about something that he does that i don't have time to talk to him about because he works so much. I usually hole up somewhere until it explodes out and then he gets upset and shuts down. Fortunately it doesn't happen much.

one2andnow3 · August 2013

We fight two ways. If one is grumpy, tired or short with the other. Or if one of us is being stubborn.

TaraW1979 · August 2013

DH gets upset because I don't show him enough attention/affection. It's an on-going problem in our relationship. I really need to work on it. He has been really upset and he takes it out on me by being really sarcastic. For example if I ask him not to do something he tells me he'll do it more then. It annoys the crap out of me. I yell at him. It gets me no where. I know we've been fighting more because things are different now with the baby. I've read it's very common for couples to fight after having a baby. There is just so much more stress in our lives. I'm hoping this fighting will stop soon.

shellyamf · August 2013

Tara I agree. We fight more now then ever before. It's getting better as we adjust and as Lily gets older. We tend to fight about miscommunications and little things. Usually it starts with one of us being in a bad mood or being stubborn. I think another aspect is that I'm home now. I used to be gone anywhere between 55-60 hours a week and now I'm not. With all this time together we get on each others nerves a lot more.

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