May 2012 Weddings
mandi921vh
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Wedding Attire
MIL's BFF's daughter, who is SIL's BFF and close to H while growing up is getting married. It was planned for 2015, but they decided to move the wedding up, and now it's October 12th. The rumor mill is running crazy with thoughts as to why they are all of a sudden pulling a shot gun wedding. We haven't received our invitations, but MIL said that the bride forgot to include postage for the reply envelopes.
Anyways I was planning on wearing a red dress that I wore in my BFFs wedding last summer, but the BMs dresses are red. I was also thinking a black dress, but then I just learned that the MOH's (SIL) dress is black.
Would it be wrong to wear either one of those colors to the wedding Or is that a snarky thing to do? How many people attend a wedding wearing whatever they chose without knowing the wedding colors, or BMs dress colors?
Re: Wedding Attire
I don't usually take the wedding colors into consideration when dressing for a wedding. Then again I usually wear black or mostly black. I would just wear what you want. It's not going to be the same style and (for the red) will probably even be a different shade.
I agree with PPs... wear whatever color you want.
I've gone to weddings having no idea what their colors were, so it's not something I've ever taken into consideration when picking a dress.
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That's what I'd do too.
Maybe I'm weird but if we're going to a wedding, I go out of my way to find out the color of the BMs dresses so that I don't wear the same color! I know it wouldn't be the same dress, but I'd still feel weird about matching the wedding party.
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