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Ok my Boyfriend is my heart three years an were still like little crushes in skool but he knows I love getting oral done on me an Da two tymes he done I've hated it I'm use to guys who kno wat to dew an he don't at all so I end up getting it from a guy I kno can dew it right but I hate cheating my boyfriend asked me all the time can he dew it an I say no an tell him why I don't now he wonna practice on me an I really don't really feel like teaching him or even how plz help me anybody I don't wonna loose him behind this I love him but I have my needs
Re: should I teach him
Translated:
Ok my Boyfriend is my heart 3 years and we are still like little school crushes. He knows I love oral and both times he has done it I've hated it.
I am used to guys who know what to do, He does not know what to do at all so I end up getting oral sext from a guy I know can do it right. I hate cheating; my boyfriend asks me all the time can he do it and I say no. I told him why and now he does not want to practice on me.
I really don't really feel like teaching him. Kindly help me; I do not want to lose him. I love him but I have my needs.
FIRST OFF, write in decipherable ENGLISH!
Second of all, if you are not sexually compatible for you --- it is very likely the guy has no sexual experience --- move on.
If he is "your heart" why are you cheating on him?
Part of being an adult is knowing what you want and then standing behind it. It's not going elsewhere to get your pleasure if he cannot provide it --- reallY? Suppose you found out he was having sex with another girl? YOu'd be furious, right?
You need to learn TACT: You can't tell him "mmm that feels great" or "over here; this is whre it feels great"???? Instead you tell him "YOU are not doing this correctly." I am surprised he didn't take off there and then!
Be polite and be an adult; do the right thing. Bottom line is that he isn't sexually compatible with you; move on.
Goodness gracious: you sound about 15! How old ARE YOU????
And if you are young --- like late teens --- and that sexually experienced already, don't ask a prude like me what I think of that one.
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:-? There is just so much wrong with this.
I don't care how much someone is "your heart." If you're seeking an intimate relationship elsewhere then you need to just break it off.
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