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Hi everyone! I'm definitely not pregnant (yet) but I'm hopping over here from GP to do a CP because I'm curious about something and I know you ladies are the best audience for this. I hope you don't mind!
When you got your BFP, were you truly able to tell based on symptoms? I know they say that early pregnancy symptoms are very similar to pre-AF symptoms. However, every 2ww I can't help but feel like if I was pregnant I would just "know" because I would surely feel different. Thanks in advance for your answers!

TTC #1 since July 2012
Cycles 1-9: BFN
Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
EDD: June 25, 2014
Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014
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CP: Symptoms? 57 votes
I knew I was pregnant...I definitely had symptoms before my BFP
I thought I was about to get AF
Re: CP: Symptoms?
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The only reason I tested was because I was planning on getting drunk that night, I always test before a night of drinking. I had some spotting 3 days before testing so it was mainly to cover my ass, I didn't really think there was any way I was pregnant. Symptoms didn't start for me until around 6 weeks.
I usually have spotting randomly during the month and didn't have any that month, but didn't think anything about it.
I was so sure we were out that month, I had told dh and he wanted to do every other day the next month , so he made a schedule (no kidding). So after a couple days, he kept asking me when I was going got get my period (i wasn't charting) so he could update the schedule (still not kidding). I tested and BFP.
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We had good timing that month and I know how my body feels before AF (moody, heavy, bloated) and I didn't have any of that. I tested at 12dpo.
My boobs KILLED and were swollen and my nipples were highly sensitive. I'm putting that as the giveaway sign. I was also exhausted and has horrible headaches. No other signs. I have PCOS and it isn't uncommon for me to go without an AF. I came back from vacation not feeling great and tested.
And here we are, 3 months later. (I was 7 weeks pregnant when we found out)
I didn't get any other symptoms until about a week after my BFP.
B Born 6.27.13
I just felt like POAS that morning and it came up positive. I don't think I would have known I was pregnant if I hadn't tested since I never knew when AF was due. I would have found out I was pregnant after getting horrible morning sickness.
TTC #1 since July 2012
Cycles 1-9: BFN
Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
EDD: June 25, 2014
Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014
My TTC Journey Blog
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Second pregnancy- I had a bfn and bleeding on 14dpo. I KNEW I wasn't pregnant. I'd bought a bottle of wine for that night, but got a call that afternoon that the blood test came back positive.
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
I had no symptoms. I also wasn't charting or anything so I had absolutely no clue where I was even at in my cycle. I just knew I was close to my longest cycle date so I thought what the hell. It's been 13 months of negatives...getting kind of used to them now.
Ended up being positive. I was 100% surprised as I said I didn't have one symptom. Pregnancy or AF related. Sore boobs and nausea kicked in at about 5-6 weeks.
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