Family Matters
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I will bet you that this is the wife's doing. I don't know what happened but they decided that you and your H no longer merit their attention.
Is there an objective third party that they'd listen to?
So, the half siblings aside, do you really care? What is it that you are upset about? Why is random person inserting herself into this?
Your FIL isn't going to ever be the father, FIL or future grandparent you and your H want. Come to terms with this now and you'll save yourself years of heartache.
Your SMIL is controlling everything here. My advice to you and your H is to stop feeding her crazy. Distance yourselves and don't even think of them. The more you or anyone else (hello! Random friend) talks to them or feeds into the drama, the more she wins. She is shutting everything down because she has the control, take that away from her.