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Re: Tighter Mortgage Rules
Hah! 43% of your takehome pay is the maximum debt allowed. Our student loans alone are 20%. Granted our mortgage is only 8%, but once you add everything up we are at 42%. I do not view us as in debt over our heads or irresponsible with our money at all. But our student loans alone are 50% of our debt.
Although I feel like lenders should force anyone wanting to purchase a home, to sit down and set up a budget. We were approved for $200k, and we bought our house for $50k. We knew there was no way we could have afforded a $200k mortgage and still put money into savings and retirement, and pay off debt. So why were we approved for that large of a mortgage (in 2009)? Not many people do that, and they begin looking at houses for the price they were approved for. Not the amount they can afford.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

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I am jealous of your house price! Maybe leaving NJ wouldn't be so bad after all?
MW bought a 70k home that we are refinancing for lower interest and shorter duration, going form a 30 year loan to a 15 year loan. Our mortgage is roughly 15% of our income with our other debt including our student loans making up a total of 42.5% of our take home income. The good thing is that her student loans worse case fall off in 6 years since she didn't consolidate them into a longer term.
@honeybee732 & @sparklerose
We live in a very LCOL area that doesn't have too much to offer. Our jobs pay us a little over $40k/year each, and our same position in the city (2+ hrs away) would pay us over $100k. So we chose to move back to our rural hometown after college graduation, and begin our careers here since the COL was so much better.
Also, the average household income in our community is $35k, and the average home price is $120k. We bought a foreclosure that needed a lot of work. We put another mortgage payment/ month into updating and remodeling our home. So it needs a lot more work than others, and can max out on its value quicker.
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Whoa, how expensive of house would that be for a 1% change to add $300?
A lot of people would not like our house since the bedrooms are smaller then in the larger homes and it is not an open floor space. We also don't have a master bedroom suite but neither of us grew up with a house like that either.
Similar to @wulfgar
Our home was built in the late 1800's, and doesn't have an open floorplan or large bedrooms. It's an old victorian, so it has the charm, but none of the modern updates. We put a lot of money into it for remodeling. In the 4 years of owning it, we've put around $25k into it. Currently we're re-doing the cement wrap around porch, cement patio, and all of the steps coming out of the home. So it does need a lot of work, but the low mortgage allows us to do that.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
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BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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I do believe in a 20% down payment and limits on total debt carried by a borrower. Manyy ears ago that was the standard. It may be inconvenient for the borrower, but it is good financial practice by the lender.
Our house cost us 255k, btw, but we were approved for something like 450k. We knew that there was no way we could afford a house for that much money - unless we didn't plan on having things like food, water, and heat in the house. lol