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Anybody want to vent with me?

Here's mine...

I feel like there are all these "experts" out there telling us "plastic is bad", "don't like you kids use melamine", "always buy organic food and clothes" but nobody is offering affordable alternatives.  I don't want to kill my family with chemicals and I do what I can, but the safe alternatives are expensive and hard to find.  Apparently you have to be wealthy to avoid toxic chemicals.  

  http://shop.brinware.com/Plates_c2.htm This stuff is cute but 20 buck for 2 plates??  

 

Re: Anybody want to vent with me?

  • I have stepped away from that crazy internet fear mongering business that you speak of. I cannot protect her from everything. I will not trust some mommy blogger to tell me what is chemically harmful to my kids. the end :)

    today feels like such a long day. I have been doing a few tasks on my to-do list and even still it is hardly even noon. grumble grumble.
  • I'm with Amanda.  Today plastic gives you cancer.  Tomorrow it will be something else.  Remember when eggs were bad for you?  (Now they're good for you).   I just do what I think is best and stay away from things like that.

    I'm so tired today.  We had a work event last night and I just want to take a nap.
  • I'm with Amanda.  Today plastic gives you cancer.  Tomorrow it will be something else.  Remember when eggs were bad for you?  (Now they're good for you).   I just do what I think is best and stay away from things like that.


    I'm so tired today.  We had a work event last night and I just want to take a nap.
    Ditto. I just can't get all worked up about all of it. Who is to say that a couple years from now the alternatives won't be found to be bad! I do the best I can but I do not let it stress me out.

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  • I think the biggest thing that makes me angry is food. I'm all about eating healthy, less processed foods, but yet, it costs an arm and a leg to feed a family. I understand that organic farmers pay $$$ to have their foods certified, etc. But, sheesh, $4.99 for a pint of strawberries is just outrageous.

    Guess I'm feeding my kids the $3, toxic-laden strawberries from Giant Eagle.
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  • ugh, the toxic, chemical, you're going to kill your family stuff drives me batty.  someone just posted on facebook a link to an article that was titled "if you're not feeding your kids organic fruit and vegetables, you shouldn't bother feeding them at all" 
    :-O

    I didn't even click on the article for fear that my head would explode.
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  • ITA. Good food in general is expensive let alone going with organic. I am kind of horrified with how much we spend on fruit a week and its not organic! But all of us eat at least one fruit a day with dd and I eating more. Produce is pricey!
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  • Produce is pricey! My kids and I love bananas and thankfully they are the least expensive produce. I'm happy apples are starting to come into season at the local farms because sometimes you can get them cheaper there than the grocery stores.

    They say eating natural foods is cheaper than eating processed. I disagree. In fact, the less ingredients a product has, the more $$ it costs.
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  • I do have to say, the Aldi's I shop at (Robinson) is getting more and more organic produce at pretty reasonable prices.  So that helps a little.  Also, Costco has Kirkland brand kids organic cotton pajamas $11.99.  So at least my kids will be poison free while they sleep. 
     
  • I hate car dealers..... I had to drop mine off this morning because teh check engine light came on. DH set up an appt at a dealer near work so I didn't have to deal with on day off near home. Well this guy is trying to up sale everything. Dude just find out why the light is on. I don't need anything else. Grrrr.
  • Food in general is pricey. I went shopping on Friday and spent $200 between Giant Eagle and Wal-Mart and there is only me and my husband. The best part was some of the stuff I got at Wal-Mart was significantly cheaper at GE! Annoying.

    Also, I may be old, but twice today I have received emails from customers using text abbrevations. Really, is it that hard to spell out Thank You? I also receive emails from our factories using smiley faces. Um, not appropriate.


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  • My H drives me insane. I needed to switch to an iPhone and instead of doing the family plan, he wants to spend an extra $25 a month to keep our plans separate on the off chance he exceeds the reduced number of minutes he'd have on the family plan. He's well under based on his current usage, but he doesn't care. He doesn't want to have to "baby sit" his minutes, so instead he'll pay another $300/yr to Verizon for no reason at all. In the meantime, he hijacked my appointment with all of this nonsense and now I've got buyers remorse over the phone I chose. Not happy.

    A post on FB reminded me about this today... we get all of this nonsense communication from the school about tests and all of these standards that mean nothing to us, so I had asked the principal about their procedures for lock downs in the event of an intruder. Maybe I'm overreacting, but this has been my #1 reservation with DD starting school. His response really irked me. He told me "I am not permitted to share our specific plan, but I can assure you this topic is something we continuously review and work on with staff members." When I asked if they performed drills with the students I was told "each teacher reviews with the class what to do in a lock down or emergency situation, but we do not conduct a school wide drill." So basically, he told me nothing! That just doesn't sit well with me. I'm really underwhelmed with the communication from our school in general.

    Along those lines, last week DD did her first drop off at before school care and they have the option to eat breakfast in the caf if they want. She did, and the people in charge just left her sitting in the caf and never told her it was time to go to homeroom. Our teacher had to send a student looking for her! The poor child can't even tell time, let alone determine what time her classes begin, and there's no bell or anything. I am paying these ppl almost $12 with the food to watch her for less than an hour and they can't even be bothered to make sure she gets to class on time!

  • Along those lines, last week DD did her first drop off at before school care and they have the option to eat breakfast in the caf if they want. She did, and the people in charge just left her sitting in the caf and never told her it was time to go to homeroom. Our teacher had to send a student looking for her! The poor child can't even tell time, let alone determine what time her classes begin, and there's no bell or anything. I am paying these ppl almost $12 with the food to watch her for less than an hour and they can't even be bothered to make sure she gets to class on time!
     
     
    That is horrible!  I would have a major complaint about that.  They should be on top of those kindergarteners making sure they are where they are supposed to be at all times.  Especially this early into the school year. 
     
  • Along those lines, last week DD did her first drop off at before school care and they have the option to eat breakfast in the caf if they want. She did, and the people in charge just left her sitting in the caf and never told her it was time to go to homeroom. Our teacher had to send a student looking for her! The poor child can't even tell time, let alone determine what time her classes begin, and there's no bell or anything. I am paying these ppl almost $12 with the food to watch her for less than an hour and they can't even be bothered to make sure she gets to class on time!
     
     
    That is horrible!  I would have a major complaint about that.  They should be on top of those kindergarteners making sure they are where they are supposed to be at all times.  Especially this early into the school year. 
     
  • I know, luckily she wasn't upset, but I was! I told them about this morning and they just brushed it off like yes of course we'll get her to her room! I didn't drop her off last week b/c I was traveling, so I don't know if it was the same ppl or not.

    They put my neighbor's Kindergartener on the wrong bus home the first day! Then the principal lied to her and told her he was on the right bus and didn't get off, and she believed he was on his way back for over an hour until the bus garage finally called and said he was there. For over an hour the school obviously had no idea where he was, and never communicated that to her until she found out on her own he was put -- by a teacher -- on the wrong bus!
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    A post on FB reminded me about this today... we get all of this nonsense communication from the school about tests and all of these standards that mean nothing to us, so I had asked the principal about their procedures for lock downs in the event of an intruder. Maybe I'm overreacting, but this has been my #1 reservation with DD starting school. His response really irked me. He told me "I am not permitted to share our specific plan, but I can assure you this topic is something we continuously review and work on with staff members." When I asked if they performed drills with the students I was told "each teacher reviews with the class what to do in a lock down or emergency situation, but we do not conduct a school wide drill." So basically, he told me nothing! That just doesn't sit well with me. I'm really underwhelmed with the communication from our school in general.

    I get why they do this.  YOU know you're a good person and just concerned about the safety.  But, how do they know that?  They don't.  You could be planning your own school attack.  And if you know the drill for what they do if faced with a gun or bomb , you can change your attack based on that.  It's really best for the kids safety if they keep their strategies confidential.  
  • kris356kris356 member
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    edited September 2013
    waltsgirl102503 said: MandyMilller said:  

    A post on FB reminded me about this today... we get all of this nonsense communication from the school about tests and all of these standards that mean nothing to us, so I had asked the principal about their procedures for lock downs in the event of an intruder. Maybe I'm overreacting, but this has been my #1 reservation with DD starting school. His response really irked me. He told me "I am not permitted to share our specific plan, but I can assure you this topic is something we continuously review and work on with staff members." When I asked if they performed drills with the students I was told "each teacher reviews with the class what to do in a lock down or emergency situation, but we do not conduct a school wide drill." So basically, he told me nothing! That just doesn't sit well with me. I'm really underwhelmed with the communication from our school in general.

    I get why they do this.  YOU know you're a good person and just concerned about the safety.  But, how do they know that?  They don't.  You could be planning your own school attack.  And if you know the drill for what they do if faced with a gun or bomb , you can change your attack based on that.  It's really best for the kids safety if they keep their strategies confidential.  

    Totally agree. I know when I worked in schools
    we practiced the drills on in-service days so we knew what to do. To practice with kids is also a double edge sword, especially younger ones because you may actually instill fear and they probably wouldn't remember anyway.
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  • I guess my concern comes from a place of knowing too much, b/c I have it on good authority from a teacher who works at the school that they're being taught the ALICE method. Which means that my 5yo daughter, who happens to sit in the seat nearest the door to her class, would be asked to essentially lead a rush on any armed attackers that entered the class. And there's no way to express our disagreement with this plan if we're not actually being informed of it. So, while I understand their need to keep it confidential, it disturbs me to know that their plan is so far from what I'd instruct my child to do in that situation that I can't even comprehend it. It has turned something that was already causing latent anxiety into something that I actively have nightmares about and there's nothing I can do about it because it's not something that we have any input on.
  • MaryMMaryM member
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    Agreeing with the organic food... Eff you giant eagle for charging $7 for a gallon of organic milk and $2 for an orange. I hate you Market District! Aldi I run to you now...

    Wow I had to stop reading about the neglect from the schools, that was awful to see. I am so sorry to read of it all!

    Never again will I invite the while kindergarden class to a bday party! My kids party is this weekend and to the 7 moms who didn't RSVP: you are on my yuck list. (I even made it easy on the invite: text, call, or email. Grrr)
  • I agree with Amber, but I totally see your point Mandy. This past week there was a stabbing (and death) at a HS about 30 minutes from where we now live. The local news covered it ALL morning over the national shows. Parents were angry - the incident happened around 7a and the kids weren't let our of school until Noonish (after officials saying it would be at 10a). As news transpired all morning, it turned out it was a gang-related issue. The cops - the officials - everyone was trying to make the release as safe as possible bc who knew what more retaliation would happen?! I get it - but I can see the concern on the parents part, too.

    Our last school informed us that there were drills - and Gavin could tell me when they had them and what they did. The school also informed us not to worry if we saw police cars at the school bc the local dept. started a new plan where they would periodically walk the school s so that they all would be familiar with the floor plan.

    Really, what I would want to know is the System's way of communication to the parents if something were to happen. Still, you have to keep in mind that that could be flawed too - but as long as staff were taking care of the kids, I would try to be more patient. Now, not to get all religious here, but outside of knowing that the school / kids are prepared as much as they can be, I leave the rest to God. I believe that there is a reason for everything and I have to have faith in that.

    Sorry if I digressed there....

    I want to vent over Gavin's Spanish homework last week! I know some already saw my FB post about it the other night, but he was given a "get to know you" sheet last week and had a week to complete it. Well, due to miscommunication on my part, I didn't think it had to be turned in bc it was all in Spanish, it was week 1, and we have no Spanish book to reference - so, it couldn't be a homework assignment, rather a classroom assignment, right? Nope. So, we had to get it done in one night when we realized it (and apparently only 3 of the 22 kids turned it in on time - so we weren;t the only confused one!). I had to spend 90 minutes with an online Spanish translation website to figure out answers like the one box said, "I am special because.." and the more-than-one-word answer it required.

    I'm all about aggressive curriculums and all, but I thought that was a bit advanced for a first grader on week 1 of school! (And no communication from the Spanish teacher about it.) I'm going to see how this class plays out over the next couple of weeks before talking to the teacher.

     

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