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How do u trust after this?
Okay so heres my situtation: I started dating this guy year and half ago. He left his wife not long after we reconnected. ( all hs friend) He said he was unhappy in his marriage and it had nothing to do with me. (kinda ironic though) About three or four months into us dating, I found out he used to go out to dinners and lunches with a female friend ( who he says he had feelings for when he was in hs but no longer did. He would vent to this friend about unhappy he was. he says it was totally innocent although he found out later she then had feelings for him.. I asked if his wife knew about these dinners and he said no. He also told the friend that his wife didn't know.. He said right before he met me the female friend had a break down because he didn't have feelings for her like he did in hs and because he was married. I never knew that she was even texting him now and then until we were three months into our relationship and I happened to see a fb message on his phone from the friend's brother. My Bf told the brother he left his wife and the friends bro said are you gonna move in with my sister.. My bf said no i tried with her for so long. I have someone else now ( meaning me) I asked him and he said he didn't know what I would think of him so he didn't tell me. He then sent the friend a message that he is in a relationship and not to contact him any more.. I just can't get it out of my head though.. For years he was lying to his wife and going to eat with the "friend" who he swears he never did anything with.. How do i know what he would do to me?? He says i am not his wife and he loves me. he was unhappy. How do u trust after this? Also if i never found the FB message would they still be talking today?? Its stressful. what do u think is this guy shady?
Re: How do u trust after this?
Date no man who is fresh out of a relationship, either with the stbxYF or a long term SO.
Those things never work. You are on shaky ground with him...and nobody wants to be a rebound girl. Very much doubt that you do.
He also may not have been legally separated from her. If he was not --- and if a guy is not --- run like hell.
And YUK to a guy who "dates" when he is still married and not legally separated. This does not make her a "girlfriend" or a "date"....you know and I know what that makes her.
Get your priorities straight: why the hell do you want to be with a married man????
This is such a laugh -- he's cheating, he's got a harem full of gullible women who think they're his special "girlfriend" and he's getting plenty from all of them....
And you want to know "is he shady".
Well, does Miley Cyrus twerk?
Think about it.
Get rid of this shithead and do it posthaste.
As an aside, all of this talk about liking this or that person in high school... exactly how long has it been since high school?