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Randoms? Vents? Confessions?

It's my first day back at work after vacation.  Instead of catching up on my emails, I am working on a calendar of fun things for us to do this Fall.

I had to do daycare drop off today.  I knew it would be rough since they've been out for over a week, but I did not expect both boys to be a total mess.  It was the worst. I started crying and sent DH a b!tchy text, taking it out on him, and telling him I was quitting my job.  I managed to pull myself together, but I could still use a drink.

The new Honda Odyssey comes with a built in vacuum.  My first thought was annoyance that we didn't wait until this year to buy our van; my second thought was that we should trade ours in for a new one; my third thought was, is this what my life has come to?

Re: Randoms? Vents? Confessions?

  • BUILT IN VACUUM???? 

    that is amazing.  I HATE vacuuming the car, the whole thing is just such a huge process. 
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    Jake - 1.15.08
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  • I started getting sick yesterday. I have no tolerance for sore throats whatsoever!! I slept like crap because my throat was on fire.

    Dd was up and in my bed at 5:20 this morning!! Ugh! But I figured at least it meant more time getting ready. No while I showered she went back to her room and fell asleep and was a bear when I woke her up. Of course dh gets to sleep through most of it. Not what I wanted to deal with while sick.

    Related...trying to make it to the bus every morning is going to give me an ulcer!!! It stresses me out all morning. We get there in plenty of time but I feel like mornings are so rushed and stressful even more than they were before which is saying a lot!
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  • I saw the ad for the new one with the vacuum and thought about how awesome that looks. We bought ours as an end of model sale and saved a ton, but I was sad to miss out on the double video screen and cooler. The vacuum may have been a deal breaker when we were buying, even with the van's increased cost.

    I'm excited to take the kids to see the new exhibit at the Children's Museum this weekend. I know Michael will love any exhibit devoted to balls.

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  • I have to take Noah to a birthday party on Saturday and the boy's family irritates me.  It's like the mom really pushes her son and Noah to be friends.  They've brought TWO birthday party invitations to the house.  And they call before to make sure we're home.  (Which is okay)  And if we're NOT home, when we do have Noah call him back, she asks things like "Oh, so you weren't home all day yesterday?"  No, bitch, we weren't and it's none of your business.  The same day she brought the invite, she had the little boy call later and this is the conversation.

    Me: Hello
    Boy: What's your dad's name?
    Me: Um, excuse me?
    Boy's Mom(in the background): No, honey, ask what her husband's name is!
    Boy: What's your husband's name?
    Me: Walt. 
    Then, the mom gets on the phone and tells me that she just HAS to give a list of names to the roller rink and wasn't sure who was going to bring Noah, me or my husband.   So she wanted his name, too.  I hadn't even RSVP'ed by this point.  SO I said "just use my name.  I will bring him.  My other son naps, so my husband will stay home with him".  I hope she realizes that this is my RSVP because I'm not calling her back again.  I DREAD going to the party...last year's party was not fun.  (They're just not my kind of people - and I feel snobby for saying that, but it's true.).  And I know, I could just say we're busy, but Noah does have a nice time with him and wants to go.  But, ugh, I just don't like her at all.  
  • Also, I have the first PTA meeting of the year tonight. I like being involved, but there was PTA drama at the end of last year, so I'm nervous about the meeting.

    They've asked me once to become treasurer and I declined. I have fear of being asked to become an officer again, because I'm one of the few parents who consistently attends meetings.

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  • lishie said:

    I saw the ad for the new one with the vacuum and thought about how awesome that looks. We bought ours as an end of model sale and saved a ton, but I was sad to miss out on the double video screen and cooler. The vacuum may have been a deal breaker when we were buying, even with the van's increased cost.


    Honda just started offer dual screens and a cooler? Wow, Chrysler has had that for at least 6 years. That is crazy. I think my dad's last three vans have had both options.


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    "He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." - Unknown 

  • I'm tired.  I-) I didn't leave work last night until after 7 and then I had to get here at 7 this morning.

    We are having a training event in our (no a/c) warehouse today and tomorrow so of course it is going to be 90 degrees both days. We were setting up yesterday and suddenly all of the salesmen had "appointments". Hm, that is soooo coincidental that there is a ton to do and you all have to leave.~X( The one guy is always here well past 6.
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    "He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." - Unknown 

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    I am tired of meetings related to my kids. Gymnastics meetings, school meetings, etc. And why is there always that ONE mom who has to refute it all and ask a million questions irrelevant to the group and takes up all our time?

    I hate the common core that is taking over public schools. I have educated myself on it and am appauled that it is going into affect. I am upset that Bill Gates takes the upper hand in my kids educations. This is what our world is coming to?
  • egpitt22 said:
    BUILT IN VACUUM???? 

    that is amazing.  I HATE vacuuming the car, the whole thing is just such a huge process. 

    Ok, so I have to share the best thing I have found down here... car wash / detailing stations... they open at 6am, I think, and they offer 50% off services on Tuesdays and Wednesdays.

    Shortly after we moved here, I stopped by one next to daycare and let them have my car (after driving 1400 miles with 3 little kids in the back, snacks, etc.). It took them over 30 minutes to clean every inch of it - and it cost me $14.49 before tip. Oh and free, fresh coffee while you wait.

    Best money I've ever spent!

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    My three sons!

  • Vent - I hate when people ask you to do a favor, and then complain when it isn't done to their specifications or convenience.  I want to scream...."I'm doing you a favor.  Sorry if it's 20 minutes later than you'd wanted...but I'm the one being put out here, so accommodate me just a bit." 
  • I want a minivan; I was hoping to convince DH that we should get one, because he's currently hating my Traverse (first year model - never again!). He refuses to drive a minivan, though, but he won't keep his truck clean enough for us to use with the kids on the weekends. Grrr.

    DH is home sick today. Granted, the man never gets sick, but he's got a stomach bug and was up from 4-5:30a. Which means that I was up the same time and then got up at 6a to do the morning routine. He gets to nap right now, while I get to work away. I'm jealous. *yawn*

    First grade, school paperwork, work, work paperwork, house, laundry... it's killing me. Slowly. Especially bc I have no friends here to vent with, and my DH is always working, so I have no one to talk to! Oh woe is me. lol

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  •  

    Ok, so I have to share the best thing I have found down here... car wash / detailing stations... they open at 6am, I think, and they offer 50% off services on Tuesdays and Wednesdays.

    Shortly after we moved here, I stopped by one next to daycare and let them have my car (after driving 1400 miles with 3 little kids in the back, snacks, etc.). It took them over 30 minutes to clean every inch of it - and it cost me $14.49 before tip. Oh and free, fresh coffee while you wait.

    Best money I've ever spent!


    This sounds like the car wash place that Walter White owns in Breaking Bad. I'd love to have one of those around me. It makes me bitter to spend $8 or 9 to go through a drive through here that doesn't even end spot free.
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  • MaryM said:
    I hate the common core that is taking over public schools. I have educated myself on it and am appauled that it is going into affect. I am upset that Bill Gates takes the upper hand in my kids educations. This is what our world is coming to?
    From what I hear from my sisters, its taking over the Catholic schools as well.  I haven't versed myself on it but plan to soon - I already know I will hate it. 
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    How time flies! Caileigh (9), Keira (6) & Eamon (3)







  • I don't even know what common core is?? 
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  • egpitt22 said:

    I don't even know what common core is?? 

    Yeah can somebody link more info??? All I had heard before dd starting was that school is so different now in general. And I know our school does the common core. Dd's teacher mentioned it at orientation but didnt say anything about it. I haven't forced myself to look stuff up yet either. I already am annoyed with school stuff!
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  • Oh you will soon enough, it is a huge topic right now (maybe more so with Catholic vs public).

    http://www.pa-commoncorestandards.com/

    http://nopacommoncore.com/

    One argument against is its a dumbing down (top down) standard across the board to get kids ready for community college. For Catholic schools the fight against it is a "dumbing down" of what is expected of the kids & that it does not leave room for faith based teaching or innovation which is one of the top reasons people send their kids to Catholic schools.  Essentially, its public school with a religion class.   

     

     

     

     

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    How time flies! Caileigh (9), Keira (6) & Eamon (3)







  • I wish I were a better seamstress (Halloween vent)

    I just vented about this on FB, but I’m still annoyed. Heather wants to be Merida from Brave. She wants to be the girl that rides horseback and does archery and spends time in the forest. She doesn’t want to be the princess gussied up to be married off.

    All of the Merida costumes are glittery and sparkly and knee length. They are totally NOT in the spirit of what my daughter likes about Merida in the context of the movie! If I were a better seamstress, there is a Simplicity pattern of exactly the right dress available. My mom even knows a good seamstress. But our first Halloween event is October 5th and it isn’t a simple pattern and the woman is in Michigan, so it’s not going to happen.

    I’m probably going to buy the $20 dress that is closest to being right (although it is too shiny and too blue) and make a long skirt and cape to camoflauge it. The archery set is ordered and we already bought the wig.

    Unrelated work vent: A coworker thinks that they way I do something is “wrong” and confusing. (Hint: it’s not confusing, it is just confusing TO HIM because it is different than the way that he does it.) When I try to explain my reasoning for doing it that way and how I have tried to accommodate his needs, he cuts me off and refuses to listen. Crabby old man.
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  • Check out those links. my kids go to catholic school and seriously my DDs first grade papers are a joke - it is 3 year old level. teachers have little say in the material they use...It is really a method of dumbing down our kids.
  • good article on voting down of Common Core in Indiana

    http://www.nationalreview.com/article/347973/two-moms-vs-common-core?splash=

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    How time flies! Caileigh (9), Keira (6) & Eamon (3)







  • lishie said:
     

    Ok, so I have to share the best thing I have found down here... car wash / detailing stations... they open at 6am, I think, and they offer 50% off services on Tuesdays and Wednesdays.

    Shortly after we moved here, I stopped by one next to daycare and let them have my car (after driving 1400 miles with 3 little kids in the back, snacks, etc.). It took them over 30 minutes to clean every inch of it - and it cost me $14.49 before tip. Oh and free, fresh coffee while you wait.

    Best money I've ever spent!


    This sounds like the car wash place that Walter White owns in Breaking Bad. I'd love to have one of those around me. It makes me bitter to spend $8 or 9 to go through a drive through here that doesn't even end spot free.

    No kidding! It would drive my husband crazy that I would spend that $ on a wash alone.

    Lisa, you need to open up one of these places then - one month later and my dashboard is still shining!

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    My three sons!

  • bride2003 said:

    good article on voting down of Common Core in Indiana

    http://www.nationalreview.com/article/347973/two-moms-vs-common-core?splash=

    Wow - I hadn't heard of this! I'm reading it right now and, from what I can tell, I am thankful Texas is one of four states who refuses to adopt this method (at least for now). Sheila and Mary, I would be so ticked bc we're all paying for Catholic school - schools that do not get ANY money from school taxes.

    I guess I understand the concept that "they" are trying to level the playing field for every child. But, since there is no monetary tie, the parochial schools should not have to follow this. It sounds like they're making kids robots - not teaching them to think for themselves, rather memorize and regurgitate.

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  • lishie said:
     

    Ok, so I have to share the best thing I have found down here... car wash / detailing stations... they open at 6am, I think, and they offer 50% off services on Tuesdays and Wednesdays.

    Shortly after we moved here, I stopped by one next to daycare and let them have my car (after driving 1400 miles with 3 little kids in the back, snacks, etc.). It took them over 30 minutes to clean every inch of it - and it cost me $14.49 before tip. Oh and free, fresh coffee while you wait.

    Best money I've ever spent!


    This sounds like the car wash place that Walter White owns in Breaking Bad. I'd love to have one of those around me. It makes me bitter to spend $8 or 9 to go through a drive through here that doesn't even end spot free.

    No kidding! It would drive my husband crazy that I would spend that $ on a wash alone.

    Lisa, you need to open up one of these places then - one month later and my dashboard is still shining!

    The closest thing to this is Cleantown on Route 8 in Hampton. I miss that place, I used to go every week on Tuesday for Ladies Day. Plus, the owners are really nice, they were customers when we were on 910.
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    "He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." - Unknown 

  • One of the best parts about buying our van was that they offer FREE carwashes forever!!  And the dealership is conveniently located about 2 minutes from my house; that van has been washed more in the past 9 months than any of my other cars ever were the whole time I owned them!!
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    Jake - 1.15.08
    Liam - 5.17.11
  • You got free car washes with your van? I'm so jealous! The Honda dealer is so close to us. I wish we had that perk. I get so excited whenever we have to get an oil change or service, because it means our van with be cleaned.
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  • lishie said:
    You got free car washes with your van? I'm so jealous! The Honda dealer is so close to us. I wish we had that perk. I get so excited whenever we have to get an oil change or service, because it means our van with be cleaned.
    YEP!  For-e-ver.  I was so excited to find that out; no appointment necessary, you can just drive right up, hop out & hand over the keys, it's done within minutes!
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    Jake - 1.15.08
    Liam - 5.17.11
  • Had to say this common core talk was aptly timed for us. We went to the parent group meeting and there was a lot of talk about the common core. They said they could have presentations on it in other meetings. From their discussions it doesn't sound bad but not sure how it actually plays out in reality.
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  • We're almost 1/2 way through Casey's movie and at times I feel like I have this single parent thing worked out. Other times I feel like an utter failure. G has started tantrum age and it came out of nowhere on Friday evening. 45 minute tantrum over milk in the "wrong" cup. Ugh. I'm so not ready for this, especially not right now.

    I've been paralyzed with mom guilt this week. I want nothing more than to go part time (just reduce one day a week and work 32 hours a week) but after seeing what my employer's offerings were in terms of total compensation for "part time" associates, it is not realistic for us and really, jaw-droppingly unfair.

    I thought I might be pg - but AF showed up this morning. I'm a mix of disappointed and relieved (mostly relieved). We weren't trying but after a night out we were stupidly not avoiding either. I had myself convinced I was pg for a few days and was terrified and excited by the prospect. 
    Ryan & Casey Married July 17, 2004
    Gabriel John Born February 23, 2012

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    I thought I might be pg - but AF showed up this morning. I'm a mix of disappointed and relieved (mostly relieved). We weren't trying but after a night out we were stupidly not avoiding either. I had myself convinced I was pg for a few days and was terrified and excited by the prospect. 
    Been there...it's a very odd/confusing feeling to be happy and sad at the same time. 
     
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