Hi ladies, I mostly lurk here but I've asked a question here and there and you have all been really helpful.
DH and I have made up a budget that (mostly) works for us. Exceptions have been that he spend waaaay too much money on my birthday weekend and last minute entertainment (fairs, concert). But for the most part we are in a much better financial situation than even just 6 months ago.
I have been keeping an eye on both of our credit reports, we are trying to do everything we can to get our scores up to buy a house in about 2 years. I see on his that a lot of the negative factors are that 1) he doesn't have a credit card (no real solution to this yet, any cards he qualifies for have initial fees and monthly fees), 2) he has items in collections (we are paying them off as we can), 3) in the past he was late in paying things and 4) he has multiple inquiries.
Is there anything we can do about his past late payments? Or do they "fall off" eventually? Same for the inquiries?
I'm desperate to get things fixed as soon as we can so that he can have a year or so of consistent good credit behavior.
Re: Credit report - do I have to wait it out?

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To clarify something...if you have signed up for a credit monitoring service (pay a monthly fee to do so) that reports on all three bureaus for you, and sends you alerts if your credit changes, this does not lower your score. The inquiries AKA shopping for credit, are what lower the score. A simple product that watches your credit for you does not lower your score.
To raise his score - avoid attempts to get him credit. Stop applying for new CCs...resist the temptation to think, "Oh, maybe now he'll get approved."
Also, make on time, in full payments. Every single month with no exceptions.
I have prior lending/banking experience and I have seen numerous credit reports with payment histories. Late or slow payments do eventually fall off the report. However, that takes about 2-3 years.
I agree that getting his collection items paid is important. And, the sooner the better. As long as you have some savings set aside for emergencies already, I would put all extra money toward getting these collections paid...this might mean cutting things in the budget like cable, fancy phones, alcohol, eating out and other non-essentials.
Thank you for clarifying! He signed up for freecreditreport.com and we sign in every so often, mostly when we get an alert that something has changed.
We haven't actually applied for any credit cards for him, I've just reviewed the offers he has gotten in the mail and they aren't good so I figured that was all he really qualified for. If I add him to one of my credit cards will that really help him?! (he is so bad with money he has even admitted he can't be trusted with a CC) I have one with a $1000 limit and one with a $5k limit, would one be better for him than the other?
Bolded. To answer your first question: Will it help his credit? Yes, it probably will. HOWEVER, I sounds like he isn't ready to be added if even now he says he cannot be trusted and has poor money management skills and restraint. For this reason, I would not add him. All it takes is one little slip up for him to damage your CC and then your credit will be hurt too.
Until he can be trusted by you and by himself to behave wisely with cash and/or a debt card, he should not use credit. Let him prove his credit worthiness by using non-credit means of spending money. If he can do that, than you two should explore the credit route for him.
This may mean putting off buying a home for longer than 2 years. Or, it may mean that you get the mortgage loan in your name/income/credit only.
If I were to add him to my CC, he would NOT get a physical card. It would be forcredit score purposes ONLY. He also doesn't have a debit card to our joint checking account.
He has a prepaid debit card right now that he is using, to have his own spending money and to learn to get better at not blowing all of it. I have faith that this sytem will work, eventually. It just atkes him a while to learn
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If you really want to build your husband's credit then I agree with the PP's approach of adding him to your oldest and most up to date card. But don't give him the physical card. OR, consider a secured card. Yes you have to put in money up front, but the limit will be low and there's little he can do to get into trouble. After several months of on time payments they'll issue an unsecured card. But if there's a way to build his credit without adding an additional card into the mix then that's the way I'd go.
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Alas, I know FAR too much about credit scores and how they work because I had to learn. Generally speaking, late payments are dropped after 7 years, though the longer ago it was the less it counts. But check that! They don't always drop off after 7 years and at that point you would need to write a letter to the credit agencies to have it dropped. Quite frankly, you can also always claim those are errors and ask to have them removed. If a company doesn't care or doesn't respond in time, the late payment will be dropped off anyway, even if it was valid. Inquiries are supposed to be dropped off after 2 years, but always check to make sure they are. Inquiries actually don't affect a score that much anyway, but every little bit counts.
The collections are what REALLY pull a score down. And paying them off doesn't even help that much, because your credit report will still show that debt went to collection. It only changes it to a "paid" collection. Banks generally require all collections are paid off before they will underwrite a home loan. Collections, whether paid or unpaid, drop off after 7 years. BUT paying on a collection starts that clock over again. So, if he has some collections that are nearing the 7-year "expiration", don't even pay those. I hate to tell people not to pay their bills but, in that case, it could actually hurt you.
Putting him on your credit cards is an excellent way to raise his score, especially if he doesn't already have a "revolving, ie credit cards" type of credit. The more "types" of credit a person has, the better their score is. And the older their lines of credit are, the better. He will basically get all the same "goodness" you have from having those cards in long-term good standing, even though he was just added on. Just DON'T give him an actual card, if he can't be trusted with it. I'm sure you can even add him to your account without giving him signing authority.
Another way to boost credit scores and do it fairly quickly, is keep your credit card utilization rates below 25-30% (preferably 25%). What that basically means is keep your balance below 25% of the credit limit.