Buying A Home
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First Time Home Budgeting

What is the rundown on cash you needed (or should have had) at closing for a first home. I'm expecting things like 

* downpayment of course (20% for us)
* closing costs (what effects whether it's closer to 1% or 3%?)
* taxes (no idea how much, I think it depends on time of year???)
* furniture/window blinds/ladders & tools/etc
* appliances if necessary

What am I missing? What were the ballpark costs you found for these (either percentages or dollar amounts where relevant)? We will have our 3-month emergency fund in addition to this savings. We are fine with used things, but most of our furniture is carry-overs from my poor grad student days so we'll need a fair amount of that stuff.

My goal is to have a reasonable estimate for how much savings we need so we can be prepared. The starter houses in our area are ~350K if that's relevant.

Re: First Time Home Budgeting

  • House insurance,

    Utility deposits

    Moving costs  (movers or renting a van - include extra eating out until you get your kitchen unpacked!)

    Cleaning of your new home

    If this is your first single family home then add extra items such as garbage cans, hoses, rakes, shovels, brooms, and misc tools, ladders. etc.  Lawn furniture

    Decorating - paint, curtains, rods, area rugs, additional furniture.

    Any repairs or renovations, upgrades.

    (for some nice, less costly furniture consider estate sales, consignment shops. and Craigslist.

  • Remember to include increased utility costs and maintenance costs with a home vs an apartment when you do future budget planning.
  • Thanks. This list just keeps getting longer. It's a little daunting, but I'd rather be prepared and wait a bit longer than run out of cash!
  • I think pp pretty much covered it. In all the excitement I completely spaced on the whole utility deposits thing and was not ready to shell out a bunch of cash for gas, electric, etc. For furniture can you keep what you have for now and just slowly buy pieces when you find a good deal on them? Until we have all our new furniture I just refer to our mis-matched style as eclectic, lol.

    Also, just something to keep in mind. We closed on our house on a Friday about noon. I called all the utility companies (gas, water, electric, trash, etc) to get us all set up immediately afterwards, but because I had called on a Friday afternoon the various companies weren't able to come out to until Monday so we spent the first weekend moving into our new place without any running water or electricity...in the middle of winter, lol.
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  • And, you may want to consider budgeting for your new home based on one income, not two in case one of you decides to ever stay home and be a SAH parent.
  • And, you may want to consider budgeting for your new home based on one income, not two in case one of you decides to ever stay home and be a SAH parent.

    Adding and you may also want to put one income into savings and do housing costs off the other. In this case, also budget home costs on one income.
  • And, you may want to consider budgeting for your new home based on one income, not two in case one of you decides to ever stay home and be a SAH parent.

    Adding and you may also want to put one income into savings and do housing costs off the other. In this case, also budget home costs on one income.
    That's essentially what we're planning already. I'm not sure if my husband will choose to stay home with kids (he wants to, but we don't have any yet so it's theoretical). Even budgeting for a starter house on my income alone is going to take a couple years. The bill keeps getting longer the more educated I get about the process.
  • With regard to closing costs, your bank should give you an estimate on the closing costs.  They can vary depending on things like taxes and whether there is town water/sewer. 

    You should also call the tax collector to find out what the property taxes were for the past year so you can get a handle on what they will be at the closing and in the future.

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  • I have a great list of items that you will end up needing to purchase alongside your new home, especially if it's your first home. I hope that you find this list helpful!



  • I bought my first home a couple years ago, but it is a duplex...and NO appliances on either side.  So that meant two fridges, two stoves, two sets of washers and dryers...phew!  If you are on a budget, I cannot more highly recommend buying your appliances second hand.  You will spend literally pennies on the dollar.  Scope out your local Craig's List or used appliance stores to get a feel for the going rates.  Another great place for good finds was the clearance aisle at Lowe's.

    Here is rundown of my finds to give you an idea...practically new gas stove and dishwasher (Craig's list from vacation rental) $225 total

    Fridge (Craig's list) $100 and washer/dryer with one year warranty $350 for both (used appliance store)...nothing fancy but all still working great over two years later.

    Gas stove on clearance at Lowe's...normally $650, half off for $325.  Initially bought a $250 fridge from used appliance store, but upgraded two years later when I found a 26 cu. ft. SWEET one on the clearance aisle at Lowe's...normally $1100, on sale for $625.  I will admit I had to search many months until I ran across that deal ;), but you never know!

    One thing I personally won't buy second-hand though, is mattresses or anything upholstered.  There are just too many issues with bed bugs nowadays.

  • Don't forget about inspection! You'll need to pay for that before you close. Also your banker may need a deposit to order the appraisal and begin the loan process.

    Check out my buyers guide Here

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