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Re: Need advice on In-laws
BUT that being said - if at the game, you want to go hang w/ your friends, then go do that. Just go. Give his parents a "I'll be back in a bit" and go hang w/ the other wives.
As far as after the game/ seeing both of you, I think your DH needs to talk to them about next season. You can't stop them from coming, but I think your DH needs to tell them that you all have a lot of things coming up in the next year and even if they want to still come - there will be a number of weekends where you all won't be able to go out w/ them afterwards.
I wouldn't go into details. But you al lneed to start having "plans". Even if the plans are just hanging out at home alone! (But again, they don't need to konw the details).
One of two things will happen. 1- they'll stop coming so often when they realize they won't really get to see the 2 of you, or 2- they'll still come but will be perfectly happy to go off and do their own thing.
You never know. BUT - if you all don't speak u pto some degree, this issue will never go away. As long as his parents think this is cool and you all always entertain them, they will think that you all love it as much as they do.
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10