January 2012 Weddings
jjbmstinco
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I am feeling sad
I felt like today dragged on. Its rainy and dreary out. J and I are arguing about money. He feels attacked because I commented that we overspent this month on a lot of things. I was just generally just telling him. Now we are both in a crabby mood. I am volunteering tomorrow morning and then going to tackle this pig sty of a house. Its bad!
What are you up too?
Re: I am feeling sad
That's about it
Honestly I wish I could just move to Colorado when he does, but I need to stay here to finish my semester. They won't let him push back his start date until December. I get that he wants to have stuff and not be living out of a box, but my parents have offered us an extra bed, and we can split the rest of the house stuff up for him to take some of it when he goes and the rest when I go. I guess it just really bugs me that he isn't even considering it. Just flat out no, he's moving the whole house when he goes and too bad for me. I've tried to make several points of why it would be better for me to stay in our house if it hasn't sold yet, but he just won't listen. I kind of want to take a page out of Tangled and hit him in the head with a frying pan.
I've tried explaining that if the house hasn't sold it will look better with furniture in it than completely empty. I also pointed out why stay at his moms if we are paying the mortgage on our house. And that Lily will probably stick to her routine better at our house. Not that she won't adjust at his mom's but then she's going to have to adjust again a few weeks later.
Granted this is all a moot point if we manage to sell the house before he moves. I think he's just counting on that happening so he refuses to consider any other possibly alternative. Men!
Kay. 1. the balloon animals are amazing. I wish there was a way to send them cause I want one.
2. Michelle, I hope everything works out ok with you and P and moving. I really don't have any advice...just good thoughts!
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Michelle- I think you need to tell him that it won't always happen the way he thinks it will. J gets this in his head sometimes too. I think what Jen said is the best.