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My husband and I are starting to look at houses. I'm working on a list of likes and dislikes so I wanted to get some ideas. So my questions are:
What is your favorite thing about your house?
What are 3 things you like and 3 things you dislike?
What is one dealbreaker to you, if you were looking now?
Re: likes/dislikes
You really want to start with what is affordable
Then what are your NEEDS
Followed by a list of wants
You will need to compromise on a want - not a need.
My best thing is location -nice neighborhood and schools, walkable, close to everything, near bike paths, and outdoor recreation, we can both walk to work.
layout and size as well as style of the house is perfect for our family and lifestyle
quality of construction.
Then we added about 60K worth of renovations/updates and I think I can live here forever.
What is your favorite thing about your house? I am currently renting but my absolute fav things about my current condo are - off street parking (I live in downtown St Paul, MN so this is a big deal!), Neighborhood - I'm right next to a dog park, play ground, and tennis courts. I also love my wood burning fire place. It gets cold up here!
What are 3 things you like and 3 things you dislike? Likes: #1 Security. I never feel unsafe in my building since it's controlled entry and I live on the 2nd floor (no one can climb in my windows). #2. My place is rather udpated. There's new hardwood floors, trendy paint colors, brand spankin' new appliances. #3. Energy Efficiency - our building is equipped with high efficiency appliances and utilities. It makes me feel good about the environment as well as the utility costs. Dislikes: #1 The size is my biggest issue - my condo is a 510sq foot 1 bedroom. NOTHING fits. #2. That I have NO CLOSESTS. None. Seriously. #3. I live on the 2nd floor and our laundry room is in the basement. That's way too many stairs just to wash your clothes.
What is one dealbreaker to you, if you were looking now? I don't know about deal breakers as I think everything besides the location can be fixed for the right price but in my house search I told my realtor the follow things are must haves: Off street parking, at least 1 car garage. Dishwasher, 2 bedrooms, unfinished basement (I'd like to be able to finish it myself, to my liking), and updated electrical systems (circut breakers vs. fuses).
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I love my house:
Not too big not too small, 1900 sq ft split level. 4 bd 2 bth (We have 2 teenagers), we have a nice sized yard with a patio. New Windows, New Roof both were must haves for me. Needed to stay in the kids' School district.
Things I compromised on: no central A/C
, Oil heat (I had never had that before and now it's a plus), Well and septic. I have these now, just have to be aware.
Dislikes: My neighbors are crazy. The water pump is old, the furnance is not much younger and the kitchen is pink...counter tops PINK, tile floor PEPTO BISMAL PINK. but none of it was obviously a deal breaker.
I will replace what needs to be replaced and renovate when I'm ready and I just smile and wave at the neighbors and let them live thier crazy life b/c I'm sure they think we're crazy too.
Faves-I love our huge back deck! It's 2 levels and has plenty of space to sit and relax, bbq or just hang out. I also love having hardwood throughout the entire house (makes cleaning up after a large dog, 5 cats and a husband who like to track in mud much easier, lol). I also love that we are close to good schools and in one of the best districts in our state even though we don't have kids yet. I also love that our neighborhood has a ton of diversity.
Things I don't like--Location goes here too. Neighborhood is nice, but there is 0 walkability and while there are always kids out playing in the street, there are no sidewalks for you to walk on (I def. overlooked this one) and no stores or restaurants within walking distance. Also, I miss having a community rec. center and pool. I've always lived in an area that had those amenities and vastly underestimated how much I would miss being able to go for a quick swim after work or pop-in for an exercise class. The final thing for me is our kitchen cabinets, which don't fit anything. The doors are really narrow and the shelves are spaced close together so even if I manage to get something to fit I have to tilt things to get them through the door (bowls, tall glasses, pitchers, etc can't really be stored in there).
For us one of the biggest deal breakers is having a home that is along a major road or throughway. We don't want to try and back out of our driveway and make a left turn into traffic or anything. Our REA tried to keep showing us homes like that but we told her we didn't want that at all.
I did want to point out that two of your needs...fenced yard and central air...can probably easily be added later if you find the perfect house or a really affordable house, that are missing one or both. They are spendy options but, if House A has everything you want and House B has everything you want except central a/c...but is $30K less, than you'll be financially better off adding the A/C later.What are 3 things you like and 3 things you dislike?
We just got the keys to our first house (3 bed, 1.5 bath, 1530 sqft) 1.5wks ago and we love it! :-)
We love the space/floorplan, the curb appeal, and location.
We don't love that there isn't a master bathroom, that the floor is wood laminate (it's nice looking but not our favorite), and the fact that the old tenant left the landscaping in shambles.
Location was the biggest dealbreaker for us. A lot of the houses in our price range were super cute updated houses in a less desirable part of town. Looking at the pictures online was tempting but then when we drove by to see them, the neighborhood was just not what we wanted.
We just moved into a new house over the summer after 4 months of looking. I was pretty open to different styles of homes while we were looking.
My only requirements were a good school district, and a fairly updated home. I did not want anything which was going to require major renovations. Also wanted a fairly secluded neighborhood where people kept to themselves.
- number of bathrooms (Yes, you can add more, but that's a lot of money and time)
- layout of house
- size/number of bedrooms (Again, you technically could change these things, but it's not an easy fix like paint or rearranging kitchen cabinets)
- location of home
Agreed! When you're looking for a house everyone from the realtor to your mother will tell you "oh, that can be changed!" Yeah, it probably could, however, it requires time and money and/or the knowledge of how to do it yourself. Assuming you can do it yourself, it'll still require money and probably more time.
I bought a house 10 yrs ago that I'm now selling. There were things I would have loved to change about the house, but never got around to it or wasn't willing to pay somebody to take care of.