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New to TTC

Hi everyone! I am new to TN. Have been with my hubby for 8 years, married for almost a year and a half. I just came off the pill a month and a half ago after being on it for 11 years. I was worried it would take a while to get back to normal but AF came right on schedule (only 1 day later than if I would have still been on the pill) and now we are no longer NOT trying. Any advice or tips? I have an app on my phone that tracks everything and gives me a pretty big fertile window. My O day is tomorrow. When is the best time to have sex before O? Any old wives tales that worked for you?

Re: New to TTC

  • First, welcome to the board and good luck with TTC!  Enjoy and I hope it happens quickly for you.

    As far as advice/tips, just enjoy it in the beginning.  It's an exciting time.  If your cycles have gone back to "normal", try an have sex every other day (EOD) around the middle of the cycle.  That should cover your bases.  If you want to know more, or more precisely predict/know when you ovulate you can try ovulation predictor kits (OPKs) or temping.  That will give you a better idea of what's going on.  But I think you'll find that most people don't recommend starting that until after trying for at least a couple months.

    Also, as far as your app goes, it can only guess when you might ovulate or when you period may be due based off of past cycle lengths.  Again, if you're fairly regular, it may work just fine.  But it also may not.  So just know that they're certainly not exact, just guessing.  If you want to know for sure, ditch the app and temp (again, probably not necessary at first).

    Stick around, you'll learn a lot.  Good luck!





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • Everything that @looneylife said. Good luck!

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • Welcome and good luck!
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    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • Jumping in from GPM.. Welcome and good luck! I went off the pill after several years and my first two cycles were normal. After that they went to very long and erratic cycles. I ended up doing Vitex to regulate after a few cycles of that. In the beginning just relax and get to know your body post pill. Hopefully your body does what it is supposed to and you have a short stay at trying.

    Speak sweetly so that if you ever have to eat your words, they don't taste bad.

    ~Unknown~

    Lesson learned!!

  • Just wanted to say welcome and good luck! I hope your TTC journey is short and sweet. If you stick around here, you will learn a lot. Just have fun the first few cycles though!

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

    TTC #1 since July 2012

    Cycles 1-9: BFN
    Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
    EDD: June 25, 2014
    Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014

    My TTC Journey Blog

  • @LooneyLife said it perfectly. If you stick around you will learn a lot! Most importantly, just relax and enjoy TTC :) 
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    TTC September 2013 | BFP 11/21/13 | Chart | EDD 8/3/14 | It's a girl! 

    DD born at 42 weeks 1 day | 8/18/14 5:33am | 8lbs 4oz 20.25in of perfection!

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  • Welcome! LooneyLife gave great advice.

    Enjoy TTC for a few months; I hope it happens quickly for you. If it doesn't, there are lots of women here who are knowledgeable about temping and OPKs. 
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • Thanks everyone! On a positive note... after coming off the pill, my sex drive went from pretty much non existent to wanting to jump his bones so I am sure DH will enjoy that :-)
  • @LooneyLife said it all perfectly. My first cycle off the pill was somewhat regular and it all went downhill from there and took a while to regulate again. Hopefully yours stays regular. Good luck.
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    TTC since August 2011
    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

    TTC Buddies with *noelcallum* - Congratulations!
    Knottie Besties with *SparklingDiamond* - Congratulations!
  • Hello and welcome!
  • It can take a while for your body to completely level out after coming off the pill. I agree with everyone else, have fun with trying for a while.
    But when you are ready to get down to business read "taking charge of your fertility". Also look into temping with a basal body thermometer. You will know for sure when your body is ovukating then. Most of us use the fertility friend app. They also have some great tutorials. :-)
    Also, welcome, I hope your stay is short and sweet. Sticking around, you will learn a lot from these girls. We are all in different stages, and some have been through some tough shit. It's nice to have a community to support eachother. Give support and you will definitely receive it!
  • Welcome and definitely everything PP's said!

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           Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph
    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • welcome and good luck!
  • Welcome and good luck!

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • Welcome! Ditto PP advice. Lots of luck to you!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
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  • PPs are wise!

    As far as coming off the pill, my first 2 cycles were practically textbook same as when I was using BC. After that, my body basically has donr whatever it wants in regard to cycle length (I was never regular before BC either though). You just have to wait and see what your body does.

    Welcome, just have fun for a while, and hope your stay is short and sweet!
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    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • Welcome and good luck!
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    TTC #1 since 9/12
  • Welcome and good luck!  Ditto everything @looneylife and @blueeyedblossom said, especially the part about learning a lot from these girls.  They are all awesome and very supportive.
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  • Welcome and good luck!
    Anniversary 
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    ~TTC Buddies with akcrrr and amandaf6383~
    ~Knottie/Nestie Besties with *ecinereb* - Congratulations!~
    TTC since June 2011 dx: PCOS
    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
    Baby N born 5/9/14
  • Welcome and good luck!

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
    www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com 
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  • Welcome and good luck!

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
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