{CP} Have you ever...

Re: {CP} Have you ever...

• LittleLady77 member

  

  October 2013

  I'm really surprised there are ladies out there that haven't had one! I would be busting out the toys to make sure I had that experience.

  
  

  
  

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• spongebobsquarepanties member

  

  October 2013

  I don't have issues in this department,  but I did have a friend that couldn't o. She really tried but it just wouldn't happen for her. It wasn't a case of bad sex or not taking care of it. She had told geer doctor and from my understanding, she was told she woukd never experience it because of some sort of physiological reason. Also, she felt great shame over it,because it made her feel inadequate.   

  

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• brij2006 member

  

  October 2013

  This is terrible, but I would have one a year when I was on BC. It was terrible, and is now the reason why I never want to get back on BC again. I kept thinking it was just a mental block, but once I got off BC it wasn't an issue anymore.

  TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
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• LittleLady77 member

  

  October 2013

  On second thought, I know there are lot of women who have suffered sexual assaults and have other mental blocks about experiencing an O.  Now I feel bad for what I said.  BUT barring all physiological issues... everything I said before stands.
  

  
  

  
  

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• BioGirl21 member

  

  October 2013

  My answer depends on tr context of the poll I guess. I do O, but not from just sex. Toys are needed.

  
  

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• nightmare_of_beauty member

  

  October 2013

  I know how to O with toys and during ST. 

  
  

  ST it has to be done a certain way or I won't no matter how long it last. 

  DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
  BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
  

  
  

  

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• Uptowngirl2009 member

  

  October 2013

  Agree with nightmare. I am the same way. I O mostly from toys or oral. During ST I have to be on top and sometimes it takes forever!

  
  

  TTC #1 since July 2012

  Cycles 1-9: BFN
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  EDD: June 25, 2014
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• Sewilson33 member

  

  October 2013

  I think there is a lot to reaching the O. For me, there was a time when I had a lot of difficulty reaching O bc of my weigh and being self conscious and not comfortable with myself in the bedroom. Now it is a lot easier to get there but it is still not every time we have ST.
  

  
  
   
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• sparklingdiamond member

  

  October 2013

  I have never had O through ST, but through other methods I have.

   
  
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  Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
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• IceHide61313 member

  

  October 2013

  I only O with the shower head.
  
  I think it is a mental thing for me not O-ing with DH during ST.
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• sgautschi member

  

  October 2013

  I only O during ST if I help myself along. I think DH feels frustrated sometimes that he can't do it himself, but he also enjoys watching me, so...lol
  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• Amberley18 member

  

  October 2013

  I swear I have different levels of O. I have good ones, I have great ones, then very rarely I have explosive OH-MY-GOD! ones. Usually after it has been a little while.

  
  After 31 cycles and two losses, we've been blessed with a healthy baby girl!
  Congrats to both of my amazing TTC Buddies, tdmd09 and sb2006!!
  Life of Amberley
  

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• DangerMuffin23 member

  

  October 2013 edited October 2013

  So now I feel the need to clarify my choice. I o all the time by myself or with toys or with oral. Since I've been doing all the work in bed lately, not during st. We just had a convo about two days ago about what needs to be happening during st to get this under control cause I'm not cool with a lifetime of having to take care of myself. He was responsive.

  
  

  

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