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Update - Furious at our Insurance Company
I go in for a sinus infection last month....nothing out of the normal. I get an EOB from the insurance company requesting I send them 3 years of medical records from my family doctor office. Apparently they need to determine if my sinus infection is a "pre existing" condition. WTF! Since when did this become a pre existing condition. I'm sure millions of people every year go in for exactly what I did. I was so mad I posted about it on facebook and a GF of mine who has worse sinuses than I do got the same letter from a different carrier. Do you think this is happening because January is around the corner and they can't pull that pre existing card anymore? I don't want to send them that much medical info on myself. I think that is just to much privacy they are wanting. We pay the premium and they don't want to pay out for something simple.
ETA - a customer service rep called me this morning because they found out I wouldn't send my medical records. Apparently they need them or other claims I have may be denied. She told me that they would need medical records even if it was just a cold! I call Bullshit on that. I told her I talked to a manager last week and my doc will be resubmitting the claim for what i really had and that it's not chronic. I asked "you need medical records for a cold?", she said yes and I told her I wasn't comfortable sending them for a cold and if I had to talk to a manager again I would and she stopped pushing it and we ended the call. My daughter has gone in for a cold and they didn't need medical records for that! I've been on individual insurance before and have never dealt with this and what we have is good coverage and a reputable company that I've been on before. SMH
Re: Update - Furious at our Insurance Company
They are fishing for a pre-existing condition. It's very unfortunate, but with the new ACA, it has health insurance companies not wanting to pay out anything between now and the end of the year. Like @hoffse said, the health insurance companies are a business and need to make a profit in order to stay afloat. Beginning January 1, there will no longer be pre-existing exclusions or anything, which will cause the insurance companies to insure people that they normally would not.
Look at it like this.... When it comes to auto insurance, someone with a DUI is going to pay a lot higher premium than someone with no tickets or accidents and good credit. That is how the auto insurance companies stay afloat and stay in business. The higher a liability, the higher the premium. Now with health insurance, they have to charge the same premium for someone who is perfectly healthy, and someone who has a very expensive disease. The only way for them to still stay in business by doing this, is to increase everyone's premium across the board. It is very unfortunate that they are being forced to do this, but it's the only way they will be able to stay in business.
@vlagrl29 If you feel that you are paying too much for health insurance, go onto the ACA Marketplace and get a quote for insurance. You may qualify for some assistance. However, if you or your husbands' employer offers health insurance, then you are required to take that insurance (since they're supposed to pay for 60% of the cost beginning June 1, 2014). But if you do not. For a family of 3 with an income of $19,530-$78,120, you will receive some assistance through ACA. So it's worth checking into if you do not have health insurance through your employer.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Have you ever thought about looking into a major medical policy with an HSA?
You pay a lower premium for the major medical policy that has a higher deductible (think $5k-10k), but then you also have money that is put into an HSA (Health Savings Account) each month. You can then use the money from that HSA to pay for a visit like this. It can also be applied toward dental, vision, prescriptions, your deductible, etc. Also with the new ACA, even those major medical policies are supposed to cover preventative care like PAP's, Mammograms, checkups for your child, etc. So you would basically be self-insuring without having the penalties or if something major would happen.
I work at an insurance agency that deals mostly with farmers. So they're all pretty much self-employed, and that is the type of policy that works best for someone like that.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Has your deductible for 2013 been satisfied?
The worse policy I had in years was when I was a temp. Even then I didn't have to worry about pre-existing conditions since I had continuous coverage.
If they won't even pay out for a normal doctor visit I don't think it's worth us even buying health insurance anymore and just offer the doctor cash when we go in.
OP- definitely keep some sort of insurance, if only for emergencies. DH and I are perfectly healthy, yet- in the past 3 years- he's needed an emergency $40,000 gallbladder surgery and I had a totally unexpected complication of my pregnancy which required hospitalized bedrest for me and a NICU stay for our little one. The total bill for that was $390K.
None of this was expected, and we would have been financially devastated if we had no insurance. We have a pretty healthy savings account but medical bills can quickly become astronomical.
Welcome to the joy of insurance companies and their pre-existing condition clauses. Luckily, those are illegal starting next year. I've spent half of my adult life without insurance for my medical condition because of those clauses...that used to be par for the course for almost every medical plan, group or otherwise.
I still remember when I switched jobs. Still had the same insurance company, but different group plan. I called their customer service and explained that. The rep didn't understand and kept snottily telling me I needed my previous insurance company to fax them proof of previous coverage. I finally said, "FINE! what is the number at YOUR company to get proof of coverage. Should I still have them fax it or do you want them to just WALK it down to your office?" OMG, she finally understood, lol. Took less than one minute to look up my previous policy and my 20-minute conversational ordeal finally ended successfully.
Medical insurance companies are vile and pure evil.