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All whine, no win - sorry to be pw

1) I found out yesterday that the company I work for as my main job is being dissolved by the board of directors.  None of the employees saw this coming, and I feel like I just got a rug pulled out from under my feet.  We're closed and issuing refunds as of today.  I was the web developer there, and I have no idea if I'll be going back in at all or not to do any database work or anything, or if I'm just done.

I do still have my other part time job, but that is only 11 hours a week.

2) I tested yesterday and got a BFN so AF is due any day, but after yesterday I just don't even care.  What's one more shitty thing.

I'm feeling depressed for myself, sad for my co-workers, and worried for my boss - he started this company and it was his dream, basically.  It just sucks so much for everybody.
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Re: All whine, no win - sorry to be pw

  • I'm sorry!!!! I hope things get better and maybe you'll find a new job soon!!!
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  • I'm so sorry on both accounts. Sometimes when it rains it pours. ((hugs))

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  • Oh I'm so sorry to hear this!! Losing your job is one of the hardest things when you've done nothing wrong (I mean, it's hard no matter what, but especially when you've worked your butt off and had no influence on the decision).

    I really hope things work out for you and your coworkers. Sending tons of good juju that you can find another position quickly (if that's what you want!).
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    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
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  • So sorry for both pieces of shitty news. FX things get better for you quickly! (((hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry for the terrible news. Keeping my fingers crossed you are able to find something else quickly and sending good vibes and hugs.
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  • Sorry for the terrible news! I hope that you are able to find a new job that you are passionate about quickly!
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  • I'm so sorry all that is happening. I hope you find a job that you love soon.
  • I'm sorry for the bad day! I really hope you are able to find a good job that you love and fast.

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  • I hope this door closing means another, better door opening for you soon. I know it's hard, but try to look for the light.
    I'm sorry that this is all happening. It always seems to come at once. {hugs}
  • I'm so sorry. How terrible for everyone involved.
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  • That's awful. I'm so sorry.
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  • That really sucks. I'm so sorry, and I hope that you can find another job soon.
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  • I'm so sorry. that just blows
  • I'm so sorry. I hope you're able to get a job you love soon!

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  • I'm so sorry. That happened to DH a couple months ago and it sucks for everyone involved. I'm sure you and your coworkers will be able to find new jobs because you're awesome, hopefully in a short period of time.  Are you getting a severance package or unused paid time off/vaca? That could help you roll through the oncoming weeks???

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  • Ugh. I'm so sorry. Just sucks big time.
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  • I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this :-(
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  • Thank you all so much for the well-wishes.  I know it will get better, it just sucks right now especially because I keep seeing things in the news about it and hearing some people's nasty comments.  Today was kind of rough, so I'm glad to be home.

    @DangerMuffin23 - Myself and nearly all of my co-workers were part time, so unfortunately no such privileges. :(
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  • Ugh, double burn. I'm sorry

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                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • Ditto what PP said, when it rains it pours...I hope better things are just around the corner for you. ((Hugs))

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