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Plus sized moms/m2b come in

I am wondering if it took you longer to see changes in your body/belly area when you were in early pregnancy. I am plus sized and I keep looking for some signs of bloating or any changes in the belly area and I'm not really noticing any.

I know it's still very early for me (between 4-5 weeks) but I am anxious to see some evidence that there really is something happening! I have the urge this afternoon to just POAS every day to put myself at ease that I am in fact pregnant. I would be broke if I did that though! I have my confirmation appointment tomorrow so I know that should put me at ease a little bit. Thanks for the insight though!

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Re: Plus sized moms/m2b come in

  • I'm plus size, and carried twins... It wasn't till about 20 weeks that I looked good and pregnant.
    I quit 'holding it in' right away, but that wasn't a pregnant belly, just letting go of my flub.
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  • (Lurker coming out of hiding) but I had similar concerns when I was pregnant.  I am plus-size and didn't show until about 20 weeks and wasn't 'noticeably' pregnant until about 25 weeks.  I POAS about once a week (buy the HCG tests on Amazon - you get about 25 for $15) and that usually helped ease my worries :)

  • I am PS and with my second guy it took me until about 16 weeks to show but you show earlier with your second. With my first I wasn't plus sized and didn't show until I was 20 weeks or so.
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  • I don't think most people can see any difference at 4-5 weeks. With that said I'm plus size and didn't look pregnant until after 20 weeks.
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  • I was at least 24 weeks before I could really notice, it was closer to 25-26 until others could notice.

    My middle school clients haven't noticed yet...
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  • Well, that's a relief to hear. I keep expecting to notice bloating or something like that but I don't see any difference. I know it's still really early though but I thought that maybe since I'm already PS it might take longer for me to actually notice a change in myself. Thanks, ladies!

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

    TTC #1 since July 2012

    Cycles 1-9: BFN
    Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
    EDD: June 25, 2014
    Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014

    My TTC Journey Blog

  • Not everyone bloats. Be thankful if you don't!! HAHA!

    But baby is still way beyond your pelvic bone now. Reaches the belly button around 20 weeks which is why I think so many women start to show then
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  • I didn't have to wear maternity pants until I was close to 20 weeks along (and when people started noticing i was pregnant vs eating too many butterfingers) but horrible nausea my first trimester I lost quite a bit of weight so I think that helped delay the need for bigger pants.
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  • I am a smaller plus size (I wear a 14-16 or a 14w depending on the cut), and I am the opposite.  I started having a mini-bump that I noticed, depending on shirt cut, at 11w.  By 13w it was so clear I had to tell work, and by 15-16w, people who didn't know me pre-pregnancy could tell.  I am 17 weeks now and I'll post in tomorrow's HDBD - but I am carrying high.
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  • I really started showing like a month/month and a half ago.  It felt like forever!  Hang in there...it'll come!
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    Beta 1 (5/17) - 66.8 Beta 2 (5/21) - 341 Beta 3 (5/27) - 2771
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  • Mostly, I look like a fatty, people cant really tell if I've just gained a few or if I'm PG. My sister says I look PG, sometimes I do...its hard. I really didn't have a "you are pregnant" bump until 15w last time, and that was with twins.

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    4/11- 12/11 Provera, 3 cycles clomid 50mg, all BFN (HSG-all clear)
    Dec 2011 DH S/A shows zero count - dx Azoo
    TESE 4/13/12 - Sperm found!! 5 viles frozen
    IVF ICSI #1- (Lupron protocol) 5R 2F 2dt- 2DP & 4CF - BFFN
    IVF ICSI #2-  (Antagonist protocol) Started stims 7/26
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    9/11/13 - U/S showed 1 baby HR 135bpm! EDD 4/30/14
    Colin born via c/s 4/7/14 (36w5d) 6lbs 14oz - 8 days in the NICU
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    beta #1-52 beta #2-62 Beta #3-6.5 - CP
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    10/29 - U/S shows 1 bean! HR 151 EDD 6/7/16 It's a BOY!
    5/18/16 Jacob born via c/s (37w 1d) 9lbs .8oz 19in - 6 days in the NICU



  • Thanks, ladies. I think I'm just being overanxious about all this. We've wanted to be pregnant for over a year and now that it's finally happening it just seems too good to be true. I have my confirmation appointment today so hopefully that will put me a little more at ease and I'll actually have a date for my next appointment (I'm guessing it will be a dating ultrasound since I have irregular cycles).

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

    TTC #1 since July 2012

    Cycles 1-9: BFN
    Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
    EDD: June 25, 2014
    Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014

    My TTC Journey Blog

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