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Both two stubborn to say sorry!
Me and my fiance don't fight a lot but when we do it seems the fights last forever. We have gone for several days both being mad at each other and not even know why we are mad any more but both of us are too hard headed to make the first move towards making up. Recently this has become more of a problem because I had to move about an hour away from him so when I see him on the weekends I hate for our whole weekend to be ruined with each other because of our pride! Does anyone else have this problem? I am hoping someone has come up with a clever solution that will snap us out of this rut! Its like we need a literal white flag to wave when we realize that we're just being hardheaded!!
Re: Both two stubborn to say sorry!
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
No relationship is perfect but this is ridiculous. Not speaking for days? That's not normal or healthy. Frankly it's incredibly childish. What happens when you two are under the same roof? You need to get ahead of this.
Premarital counseling is a must. Learn to communicate better. I imagine your arguments turn into wars because you don't know how to speak to one another or properly interpret what the other is trying to say. I wouldn't move forward with any major wedding plans until this is sorted out.
I happens when ever you are in a relation Ego’s tend to clash ,as a matter of fact its basic human nature but when ever such things happen always believe that you are tend to be made for each other and your love for each other would never affect your relation, There are up’s and down in every relation but you need to stick together no matter what the conditions or situations do.
I wouldn't do this on a big issue that keeps coming up though- those need to be fully discussed in my opinion but some of our blowouts can be over stupid things and in those cases it's not worth it to continue to be angry!