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FFFCs

Come on ladies...I know you have something to confess!

(I will post mine whenever I remember it :/
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  • I've had a lot of spotting this week. So on Wednesday night I took another pregnancy test. I know it wouldn't have shown me no HCG levels, but it settled my anxiety.

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  • We had poptarts for breakfast. we = DD, me and the dog.
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  • edited October 2013
    I wanted to get out of work earlier today, and in order for me to do that, I have to get DD up earlier and get her to daycare earlier. I've bribed her with donuts to get her up. It worked. I'm not ashamed.  /:)

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  • I don't like chocolate milk :-/
  • I don't like chocolate milk :-/

    ditto.  I actually don't like chocolate at all.
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    I don't like chocolate milk :-/


    ditto.  I actually don't like chocolate at all.

    I like chocolate but I just don't like milk at all.
  • I don't want to give DH any BJs, even though he's asked for them, because I think it's unfair that he get that when I can't have anything right now. I told him, and he said I was being selfish. I think I deserve to be under the circumstances.

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  • @sgautschi Damn straight! We have been trying to abstain since I spot horribly for days afterward. So he seems to think I should give him BJ's in the meantime. Um, no. The boys can suffer too.

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    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • I think that men have no right to feel insulted when we say no.  We are people, not servicing machines.  When they get that way I think they're pigs.

    That being said, DH and I haven't had sex since conception...and no one has asked for anything.  And I don't miss it.  We cuddle, but I am not in the mood for more. 
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  • brij2006 said:

    @sgautschi Damn straight! We have been trying to abstain since I spot horribly for days afterward. So he seems to think I should give him BJ's in the meantime. Um, no. The boys can suffer too.

    Men...I'm all for "helping him out" with no expectation of getting anything back, just not right now. Between BFing, changing diapers, and keeping up with cleaning the house and cooking dinner, I just don't feel like doing much else.

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  • re: bjs. I always just blamed BFing. I would say I don't know what could possibly go down and I don't want that getting to my daughter.
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  • H has never requested a BJ, I'd probably be really pissed if he did.
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  • H has never requested a BJ, I'd probably be really pissed if he did.

    Ditto.
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  • OK I thought of this one today while spending the day with my friend.

     

    She just got married at the end of July. Her Dh said she could not get pregnant until he said they could. Well He told her in September they could have a baby and he just knew she would get pregnant the first time because if he wants to get her knocked up that is what will happen the first time. Well The first of October she called me and told me that she was pregnant. (He is not very happy that she is pregnant even after he said it was ok)

     

    The bitter infertile in me still exist and I was mad that they got pregnant on the first shot and that he said that if he was going to get her pregnant that is what would happen....(it took me almost 4 years and 4 losses to get to where I am)

     

    I know this is not right that I think this way but I do flame me if you must.




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  • No flames from me monkey. I can understand your feelings and I can't say I would be feeling any differently especially with how he is acting with everything.
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    @monkey I would've been pissed too, it's just not fair sometimes, but at the end of the day you and your H are going to be the happier (and better IMO) parents because you both want this so badly. It's really sad that your friends H is mad about it. I hope they are able to pull it together and get on the same page soon.

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  • Another one for no flames, @monkey. First off that guy sounds like a real shit head.

    Sounds like he's pretty full of himself and this gives him one more reason to be. "When I decide to impregnate you is when it shall happen." Ugh.
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  • No flames here either monkey! I'd be upset too..

    And to the BJ topic- DH has never asked for a BJ but after we lay down he asks me to hold his penis until he falls asleep. Lol he's weird.

    And another FFC- I've never swallowed when I do give BJs. I think I would throw up.
  • @bridget I rub DH to sleep almost every night, although a little less lately, part of why it's irritating that he asks for BJs so often.

    And I've only swallowed once. I won't do it again because the anticipation kills me and it's not exactly the best tasting thing.

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  • H has never requested a BJ, I'd probably be really pissed if he did.

    Ditto.
    wait..like never, ever?
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  • 1) I love giving BJs. But I don't swallow.

    2) if my h asked me to hold his peen or rub him till he fell asleep every night we would not be married. I'm a total bitch when tired and want to be left alone.

    3) were leaving b this evening for a wedding. I thought it started at 3:30 and cried when I heard it started at 1:30. I feel like all I do recently is leave B with other people. I might skip the cocktail hour and come home to be with him before the reception.

    4) @monkey no flames from me. Her H sounds kind of douchey.
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  • vitan said:

    H has never requested a BJ, I'd probably be really pissed if he did.

    Ditto.
    wait..like never, ever?
    Maybe on a one or 2 occasions in almost 11 years of being a couple, but not anytime recently. He knows it'll happen if he doesn't ask, just like I don't ask him to do it to me.

    It's not that I mind doing it, I just mind requests!

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  • @Mrads, oh I completely agree. If DH asked me every night to hold his peen (I like how you said it lol) we wouldn't be married still.

    DH only asks when we can't DTD. Like if I'm on my period he will ask maybe once. He asked me just a few nights ago and I grabbed it for like 2 mins and then I said I was uncomfortable and turned around. Lol

    @AshleyMatt1215, I am just like you. I don't mind giving BJs but when they ask I'm like uuummmm, no! I honestly can't remember him asking for a BJ the whole time we've been together.
  • Yeah he never asks. I give them when the mood strikes and he does the same.

    But also, I am not the best at them (small mouth, big gag reflex) so I think that is part of it.
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  • I don't think husbands should have to suffer, you married them to make them happy and vice versa.
    Just because you're not into it, why can't he get any? I bet it wouldn't fly if the tables were turned.
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