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So I finally worked up the nerve to check my credit report this morning (not sure why I was nervous-it was good!) and was surprised to see two credit cards with high balances listed that I was unfamiliar with. After a little sleuthing, I figured out that these were cards my parents had added me to as an authorized user in case of emergencies back when I was in college. It has probably only helped my credit score; though both had surprisingly high balances they were also well under half of the available credit and had perfect payment histories. I felt very awkward seeing what my parents' credit card balances are!
My question/concern is whether the minimum payments on these cards will effect my DTI when we apply for a mortgage in a couple of years. I'm sure I can have my parents remove me if need be, but it could lead to some awkward conversations. I'm shooting for a consumer debt free lifestyle, while they are high earners who are comfortable carrying debt. I can't think of a way to bring this up that doesn't scream, "thanks for throwing me a lifeline back in college, but now I don't want your big monthly payments bringing me down." Of course, I'm an adult and I will bring it up if I have to, but I always thought being an authorized user did not mean that the particular line of credit would "count" against you.
Potentially useful info: I checked using Credit Karma, not an official report. Also, I did tell my parents that I could see the cards on my credit report (and that they were welcome to take me off of them at any time) but I didn't tell them I could see what the balances are. I don't think they check their own credit much so they may not realize it works that way.
Re: Surprising Credit Report

"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussWe have a solid plan to build savings, but are not high income earners and in our field, never will be. From the balance I saw on my parents' card their monthly payments must be at least $300, so I'm thinking I need to get off of there to keep our DTI accurate. Sigh. I know they carry a balance because I'm very close with my mom, and it has come up in conversation.
I'm not too worried about the credit hit; H just found out through his research that only the lowest score of the couple counts for mortgage rates. H's credit is good but will still almost definitely be our lowest. If I get off of these cards and open another of my own (maybe one of those Fidelity Amex's we were discussing recently!) I don't think it will sink our home ownership aspirations. The ratio they are carrying is similar to the one I was carrying until just today, so that shouldn't be too different. I've had my oldest card for almost ten years, so the length of my history is pretty solid as well.