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I feel... Defeated (pr not me)

I just went on Facebook and a girl who got married one month before me announced she's due in May... I had a strongggg gut feeling she was but now I feel depressed and defeated. I hate to be another sad rant but this is the only place I can let it out. I wish I had answes to why it is taking so long for us...
Thanks for your support!

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Re: I feel... Defeated (pr not me)

  • I totally feel you and can sympathize. Keep your head up we WILL get our BFP and be mommies! <3

    "I can do all things, through Christ who gives me strength."



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  • I'm so sorry. It's never easy when someone who got married around the same time announces before you.  It's like "why them and not me". HUGS

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  • ((Hugs)) Rant away. This is how I've felt when our friends who got married a year and a half after us were pregant a few months later. And when one of my best friends who just got married a year ago announced over the summer. It's hard to hear. I'm sorry hun.
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  • I'm sorry girl...that's never easy. I really hope you get some answers or a BFP soon. I'm sending you all kinds of baby dust. ((Hugs))

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  • I'm sorry, dear. I hope you get some answers soon!

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  • Thanks for the support! I guess it makes it harder knowing next cycle is a year. It's an anniversary I never wanted to happen.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • Thanks for the support! I guess it makes it harder knowing next cycle is a year. It's an anniversary I never wanted to happen.

    I remember the year mark looming being tough. I'm so so sorry you're feeling defeated and sad. (Hugs)) I hope you get answers (and a BFP) soon. Hang in there!
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • (((hugs))) Hang in there! 
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  • I'm so sorry. Sending lots of hugs to you!
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  • I know exactly what you mean. With next month being a year for us as well and at least one person a week announcing on fb (5 this week), I've been constantly feeling like "why them and not me." Hugs to you!
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  • I'm so sorry. I'm rooting for you to get your BFP soon.

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    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • *hugs* I'm sorry, I know you'll get a BFP soon! 
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  • I'm so sorry you're feeling defeated and sad. I highly suggest hiding people on FB. It makes it a bit easier when you're not inundated with PR posts.

    XOXO

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • I'm so sorry, that's not fun. Don't feel bad about venting here, that's part of the reason we're here!

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  • I'm sorry; they suck, the pr announcements that is. I agree with Amanda. Hiding people on fb has kept me fairly sane.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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  • I'm sorry. People who got married around the same time as us are having their third children now. It hurts. Bleh.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

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