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Pedicure fun...vent

Backstory: My friend and I used to go to a certain nail salon together every couple of months or so. She recently got pregnant and has been acting pretty rude and insensitive to me. As a result, I've distanced myself from her and we haven't talked much lately.

A few days ago I went by that salon after work to get a pedicure. The lady was asking how my friend was doing and I replied with something like "she is doing well I think. Having another baby." The nail tech replied with some over-the-top "ooooh so exciting!!!!" and then said "you should get pregnant too! Then you and her can have babies at the same time!"

*face palm*

Married August 2009

3 years. 5 losses.

Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

Re: Pedicure fun...vent

  • Yeah you should totally do that! {dripping with sarcasm} cause if you could, I'm prettttttyyyy sure you would have done that already. Thanks for the unwarranted advice nail lady.

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    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • I'm sorry she said anything. That sucks and I'm sure it hurt, on top of the hurt of distancing from a friend as well. ((Hugs))
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • Double face palm...

    Some people need to learn to keep their mouths shut...

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  • Where is this? Can I punch her for you?
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    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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  • Oh for fuck's sake. I think I'd have kicked her and then walked out.

    Sorry you had to sit through that during what should have been a nice relaxing treat!
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    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
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  • So when should I come down and go for pedi's with you and we can give her what for.
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    TTC since August 2011
    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

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  • Oh, yeah! Because your friend being pregnant is TOTALLY the reason for you to get pregnant, too! What a dumb comment, even without the TTTC. People need to think before they speak.
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    TTC Since May 2011
    DX: Subclinical Hypothyroidism
    BFP #1: 11/21/2011. EDD: 8/4/2012. Missed M/C & D&C at 11w6d: 1/20/2012.
    BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.
    BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.
    BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
    BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
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  • Eyeroll... sorry you had to deal with that! Not sure what your reaction was, but I assume you kept your composure, so good for you!
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  • Good lord, I might have 'accidentally' kicked her in the face. Reflexes you know.
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