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Those who've had a m/c

Did you have a strong feeling as to the sex of the baby you lost? Or no idea?

A friend lost her pregnancy at 7w. She swears it was a boy.

I've always assumed the one I lost at 6w was a boy. I refer to that loss as "him" and just have that feeling.

Did you experience that?
IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
FET - BFN
FET - BFN
Switched clinics
IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
Baby Boy born July 2015

Re: Those who've had a m/c

  • Yes, I felt like I knew. It killed me to find out I was right when the testing came back.
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  • I never did.
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    TTC since August 2011
    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

    TTC Buddies with *noelcallum* - Congratulations!
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  • I felt like I knew with the first one. With the second one I tried not to think about it one way or the other, but we had tests done and learned she was a girl.
    BFP 9/22/10, missed m/c 11/1/10 at 9w3d, D&C 11/3/10, diagnosis: trophoblastic hyperplasia
    BFP 6/18/11, missed m/c 8/16/11 at 11w2d, D&C 8/17/11, diagnosis: baby girl with Trisomy 21
    BFP 5/29/12, healthy baby boy born 2/12/13 at 40w5d :)
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    Congrats to both my TTC buddies, Amberley18 and sb2006 on their beautiful babies!
  • ILRV, I have the same feeling. I always refer to my first m/c as him. With the second one I tried not to think about it. I was too scared about the PG.
    TTC Since 1/2009
    Dx w/ PCOS IR 8/2009 - On Metformin
    3/2011 - 100mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
    100mg Clomid + TI = Anovulatory
    2/2012 150mg,200mg Clomid + Trigger + IUI + Prog = BFN
    5/2012 = Surprise BFP M/C @ 6 weeks
    5/2013 - Femara, Trigger + IUI + Prog = BFN
    8/2013 - Injects, Trigger + IUI + Prog =BFP M/C @ 6 weeks
    3/2014 - IVF - BFP M/C @ 7weeks 

  • edited November 2013
    I had the same feeling. 


    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • I had a really strong feeling it was a girl. I had the same strong feeling I was having a boy with my DS. I am tempted to ask my GYN if they tested for sex since the did the pathology just to find out if I was right
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    First date July 31, 1999    Married January 28, 2009 
    TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 
    DS born: February 21, 2012

    TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
  • No.  I wish we had found out, though (I m/c'd at home in the shower).
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  • I have a feeling it was a boy.  If they end up doing a D&C, I just might ask to see if there is a way for them to check.  I have no idea if they can that early, but H and I both feel that it was a boy. 

    The first m/c I have no idea. It happened so fast that I didn't have time to wrap my head around the fact of being pregnant, let alone what sex.  There's a sinking feeling in me that thinks it was a girl, but I didn't have any specific feeling like I did this time. 

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • I feel like I knew, just like I did for E.
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    J & J 10.21.06 
    BFP #1 02.13.12 
    We said goodbye to our sweet baby on 03.16.12. 
    BFP #2 07.07.12, due 3.18.13. Evelyn was born on 3.15.13!
    BFP #3 07.28.14
    We said goodbye to our triplets on 09.25.14.
    BFP #4 05.01.15, due 01.09.16
  • I felt like my first m/c was a boy. I didn't have strong feelings about my other two, though.
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    10/10/2010
    TTC Since May 2011
    DX: Subclinical Hypothyroidism
    BFP #1: 11/21/2011. EDD: 8/4/2012. Missed M/C & D&C at 11w6d: 1/20/2012.
    BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.
    BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.
    BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
    BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
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  • With the first I did. I truly believe it was a little girl. The other two I didn't have it. I was only 5 weeks with the other 2 and 12 weeks with the first.
  • I felt like mine was a boy. It was a long time ago but I m/c at roughly 9 weeks.

    "I can do all things, through Christ who gives me strength."



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    Wife to a wonderful man, who wants to be a daddy as much as I want to be a mommy. Hopefuly soon! <3
  • A little late here @Iloveredvino, but it's worth a reply.

    I am sure my first (11w) was a boy. I felt it all along when I was pg and when my grandmother was on her deathbed she kept talking about a boy baby. I refer to it as "him." If I could go back in time I would have them test the tissue from the d&c.

    I had an inclination that the second one was a girl, but it wasn't as strong as the first time around.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

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