so we have friends that have been trying to get pregnant for a while. right after I got my BFP I noticed this same friend pinned some baby stuff on pinterest and it made me question if she was pregnant. So I said something to DH and he said something about the pinterest thing to another friend and found that they are indeed also expecting a baby! I'm so excited for them but i'm not supposed to know.
well this weekend we'll see them for the first time since we both got our BFP's and i'm sure Ben will want to say something about me being pregnant to our friends.
but if I didn't know that she was pregnant I would want to let her know ahead of time so that she wasn't suprised/hurt by the announcment. she doesn't really fb and we don't email so I was thinking about sending her a text. what do you think?
am I over thinking this?
Re: how to deal with this situation?
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
I don't think they're telling people yet. this person that told my husband wasn't supposed to say anything.
and they had an early 2nd tri m/c several years ago and had been trying for about a year this time to get pg. so thats the only reason I was thinking she would be sensitive to a pg announcement.
and we haven't actually told any of our friends. we have our NT scan on Wed and we'll start after that.
The Rowdy Roberts
haha I didn't think about that! as far as I know they don't know i'm pregnant.
The Rowdy Roberts
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
we aren't doing any sort of formal announcement, and I won't do anything on FB we'll just tell people randomly I think
The Rowdy Roberts
Congratulations again!
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Lesson learned!!
thank you everyone! I know I'm totally making this more than what it needs to be.
I like your idea LL!
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