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My dad and stepmom have been married for about 10 years (but have been together for about 16 years.) When they married she kept her maiden name. When I asked her why she told me that she was married once before and it was a pain in the rear to change her name just to end up changing it back two years later. I don't see why that would cross your mind when you marry someone (the "D" word, that is...maybe it's a second-timer thing.) Anyhow, I've been thinking about what I want to give to them for Christmas and I saw this really beautiful cutting board on Etsy that has the family name carved into it ("The Jones Family.) The problem is that I don't know which name to put on it. Could I use both names hyphenated (The Jones-Smith Family)? I always see really nice family name decor and I want to get it, but I don't know if it'd be appropriate. Thoughts?
Re: A Family Gift
If all else fails I would do first names before last names. In other words, if you love the gift, don't want to do any digging and think they will love it too I would definitely go with first names.