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WTF? (PR not me)
So my SIL posted on FB the simple status of "I'm Pregnant." Seems pretty crazy when she just had a baby on Nov 17th. Turns out it was some FB joke going around. She has now posted a status that basically says it's just a game/joke, you don't like it, than move on and don't read it (I summed that up a lot).
I don't think this is funny or a joke or a game. I'm fighting all my urges not to comment on this.
Anyone else seeing this today?
DX: 6/2012 PCOS TTC: 6/2013 BFP: 9/6/2013 Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
Re: WTF? (PR not me)
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
I would probably send her a PM explaining how hurtful posts like that are.
My male cousin posts every year on April Fools that his wife is pregnant, and I always get so excited because he really wants kids and deserves to be a dad after what his ex did (had an abortion without telling him). So I always get really irritated with him posting it as a joke.
BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
My Ovulation Chart
YES!!!!! My H did this a few weeks ago....it was some 'game' where you click like on a person's status (which has some random silly nonsense) and they give you a 'list' of random silly nonsense to choose from to post in your status. So one day, I am looking, and I see this in my newsfeed, and a bunch of comments below from our friends congratulating us. Theeeeeeennnnn....to add to all of this....I get a text from his cousin asking me if I have something to tell her. I seriously wanted to kill him. I asked him WTF then he explains that it was a 'game' thinking that it was funny and I said NOT FUCKING FUNNY. It's bad enough that I cry every month that I am not pregnant, then he goes and does this. After I screamed at him for doing something so stupid, he promptly deleted it.
My Ovulation Chart
BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
~Started acupuncture in May 2014~
~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
I had a friend do this a couple years ago but it backfired... she found out about a week later that she was in fact pregnant lol..
In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!
T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.
BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
Oh, well, I love my H, and normally he doesn't do something this stupid, but believe me, I was not loving him when I saw that....I wouldn't divorce him over it, but the thought of crotchpunting him did cross my mind. Men just don't think sometimes but he got the message loud and clear when I screamed at him that maybe, just maybe, making some announcement like that as a joke - or even seriously - IS NOT OKAY.
That's the thing...if we do get PR, I do not want to make some grand announcement on fb about it. In fact, I intend to keep quiet about it for a while before even telling anyone. And this is a discussion that we've had already, so we're on the same page about it. This is just one of those very personal, private, intimate moments that I don't want the world to know about until I'm ready to let them know - especially if there winds up being problems - and that includes telling family. Even with our struggles, only a very few select people (outside of this forum) know.
Agreed, that is so sweet. I would probably do the same thing.
ETA Tried fixing the quote but I don't think it worked. Oh well.
B Born 6.27.13
BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
I am also so sorry people in real life are not supportive. I think of you often and hope that you are doing OK. I think that is beautiful that you put the u/s pic in a forever and always frame.
***Big Hugs***
Our Little Raspberry-Born 3/27/12
We Said I Do 09/06/09
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)