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IVF money-back guarantee thoughts?
DH and I have started saving up already, but we're still going to end up needing to take out a loan for part of it to get things rolling by next summer. Our RE office has a couple of different programs that they offer for IVF. The flat fee is about $10,000 per cycle (although this does not include medication, of course). You can pay for a flat fee package of 2-3 cycles of IVF also. Then, they also offer this money-back guarantee over the course of a year for $26,000 (again not including meds). If after 3 fresh embryo transfers and additional frozen transfers (if you have them), and you're not pregnant in a year, you get your money back.
So, my concerns... if we did the money back guarantee, what if we get pregnant the first try (wishful thinking, I know!). That's $16,000 OOP that could have been spent elsewhere. Then again, what if we didn't get pregnant at all? $26,000 that could then be used towards adoption. I know that we need to discuss this with our RE to get his professional opinion about our odds, but I wanted to hear if anyone else had any experience with programs like this?
Hope everyone is having a great start to their weekend, so far!
TTC since 3/2012
DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015)
Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
Ovaries are done...
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
Re: IVF money-back guarantee thoughts?
It's important to consider that IVF doesn't always work the first time (or at all). Of course you do run the risk of paying more if it were to work the first time. I think it's important to consider your diagnosis when deciding.
dx: Unexplained IF (mild MFI)
TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN
IVF #1 (May 2013): Antagonist Protocol:24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
IVF #2 (August 2013): Lupron Stop Protocol:
28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
FET #1 (April 2014): transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP
C.J. born 01/09/15
Our office also offered other packages (1 fresh/1frozen, 2 fresh/2 frozen) with the same deal... If it results in a live baby, you don't use the rest of the package. Also, if you don't get embryos to freeze, you're out of luck. We did the 1 fresh/1 frozen package. We have now done both of those and still have embryos so we will just pay for the next FET. The package was $14k which didn't include meds.
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
Usually the refund programs are over once you have a successful pregnancy. So if you get pregnant on the first try, you don't get to use the other two tries on a second child.
Baby Boy born 5.3.15
dx: Unexplained IF (mild MFI)
TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN
IVF #1 (May 2013): Antagonist Protocol:24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
IVF #2 (August 2013): Lupron Stop Protocol:
28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
FET #1 (April 2014): transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP
C.J. born 01/09/15
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
I would be all over the package if I was you... Just my opinion. There is (or use to be) a DOR checking on the infertility board. Check with those ladies on success rates for IVF. It's not terrible with numbers like yours especially if you got 3 follicles with clomid alone- that's fantastic. The problem with DOR is that it causes 2 issues, a low number of eggs and possibly poor quality eggs. The second issue is the one they just can't solve for. The only thing they can do for poor egg quality is to keep doing IVF cycles and hope at least one of your eggs is good (there is no way to tell ahead of time). That's why it can sometimes take a few IVF cycles to work, well that and the fact that you won't get more than 6 eggs per cycle.
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
Married August 2009
3 years. 5 losses.
Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15
Thanks @Flamingo86! Seems like you and I will be starting our next steps around the same time next year. Looking forward to your updates about bringing your little one home!
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)