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Need answers please - How would you take this?
Re: Need answers please - How would you take this?
I know what your words mean but I am not following... This was said to me recently. The first two sentence are somewhat complimenting but I am lost as to what the person is trying to say.
There is some background to this. A married man has been messaging me. I respond but only casual talk. I would not fool around with a married man. This man does not live anywhere near me but he is someone I know. He has been asking for pics of me because he find me attractive.
My latest response to him before I received that weird message to him went something like this: You're married and I would not want to send you pic of me. Most women would not be comfortable with that. He says he is happily married and his wife would not mind one bit.
Just don't know why he would make that weird statement after I brought up his wife. Is he's happily married why would be want pics of me. He also says he would love to look in my eyes and share a drink with me. I'm starting to think his statement means I know you want me. You are playing dumb?? I know I should not care to analyze this but it is my nature.
If he is looking to cheat, he is barking up the wrong tree.
The last thing he said to me was send me a picture of your lovely self. I find you attractive and want to know you. I'm not going to.
Just wondering if I made me mad after bringing up his wife...
He has been in a couple of well known (especially one VERY well known band) bands.
Surprised he would do this as he kind of has a name. Some women would expose him but I am not bold.
Why are YOU doing this? His intentions are clear, so if you aren't the kind of person to help a married man cheat, stop writing to him and analyzing everything he says. Your conversations are inappropriate. Just because you don't plan on meeting/sleeping with him doesn't mean it's okay to have flirty conversations on the internet. You're already helping him be shady to his wife.
Why on earth would you feel like a jerk ? He only wants to sleep with you ? A woman with character would be insulted.
End all contact.