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Thinking I might be....

I think I may be pregnant, but not sure yet. Haven't taken any test, but am a couple days late. If I may be, I don't want to drink, but usually do have a few drinks with family over the holidays. What is a polite way to say I don't want a drink without raising any concern or questions as to if I am pregnant? I would rather not tell family that I am until a little later on, if I am at all. Thanks!

Re: Thinking I might be....

  • have a small glass and then tell them you are watching calories :-)
  • If someone asks if you want a glass of wine, just say "No thank you" and get yourself something else, ie. a glass of orange juice.  If anyone starts bugging you about it "Why aren't you drinking?  You always drink!" "I bet she's pregnant!" just laugh it off and change the subject.
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  • I'm in the camp of drink until it's pink. Have a glass or two. Decline the rest. Or share with your H. Hard to tell how much each of you is drinking if you share. Don't even need to drink, just get your lips wet.

    Honestly if you really think you may be pregnant take a test.
  • I'm still hungover from last night.  Simple and shuts down the baby talk quick.  
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