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3-6 month emergency fund?
H and I took a break from our snowball to build our 3-6 month E fund. We want to start TTC next December but want the money saved away before then. We will continue to snowball while TTC and start putting away $1,500 a month into a baby fund if and when we get a BFP. When we sat down and did the math 6 months living expenses for us with literally come out to $4,068. That isn't even living bare bones that includes our iPhones and Netflix. We agreed to put $10,000 away to be safe.
Can anyone tell me how much you would be saving for 3-6 month of living expenses. I almost feel like $10,000 isn't enough.
Thanks

Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Re: 3-6 month emergency fund?
After we are done with TMM our monthly budget will be about $2k per month. That includes money for entertainment, gas for both of our cars (if one is out a job we won't need that in the budget), some home repairs, etc. So we figured that if one of us were to lose our job and we needed to live bare bones, then it would be around $1,500/ month. That's $9k for 6 month efund, and $4,500 for 3 months. $4,500 doesn't seem like anywhere near enough to me, but H see's the math of it, and we can live just fine on 1 of our incomes. So we will likely do $6k in our Efund just to be safe, but I would prefer $10k because 6 just doesn't seem like enough.
You aren't alone in feeling like the $10k isn't enough of an emergency fund. But if you're a 2 income household, and the Efund would only be touched if you both lost your jobs. Then you shouldn't have a problem.
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Maybe we should be shooting even higher than $10,000 or maybe this is a good enough start while we keep snowballing this summer. This has been the most confusing part of our Dave Ramsey plan yet.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
H doesn't want to save more than $10,000. He wants to get back to paying off debt and be as ready as possible to TTC. He only sees the numbers and thinks we could be done saving for our e fund on Jan. 15th so why not stop there? Haha. We are doing $10,000 for my own peace of mind I think knowing we will be saving extra for a baby makes him feel a little more secure but the whole thing is making me nervous.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
In your case , since you don't have rent I'd be comfortable with $10,000 even though you're TTC pretty soon. However, if you want more I'd say that's never a bad decision.
We don't have a separate e-fund.. more like a big savings account that can be used for anything major- house repairs, vacations (which we don't take any with a 1 and 3 year old!), a DP on new cars if we need one immediately, a DP on a new house, etc, etc.
Right now we have 13 months of expenses saved. That includes 2 kids going to day care full time ($20,000/year), which if one or both of us were to lose our jobs, I think we would probably not have 2 kids in day care full time. They would most likely go 2 days a week (in order to keep their spot at day care) until we were back on track.
I still feel like it's not enough though- I probably just over worry but I'm hoping to get 18 months in there by the end of 2014.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
An e-fund is not supposed to only be for unemployment. It's also for if your car breaks down, you have unexpected medical bills, or your furnace dies... Things like that. There are many kinds of financial emergencies you can encounter.
If your work covers most of your living expenses, that's great, but you probably want some money so you could move someday if you had to. If you wanted to move and take other jobs someday, it can be quite expensive between the move, deposit, first and last month's rent, and sometimes 2nd months rent before you get your first paycheck. You also want your e-fund to have enough to cover your family "out of pocket maximum" on your health insurance (especially before TTC), etc. For most people, 6 months of living expenses will cover almost every other kind of emergency, but with your expenses being especially low, it's worth considering what other kinds of expensive emergencies could come up.
Anyway, my goal for the e-fund, once we're where we want to be otherwise, is for it to get touched in true catastrophes only. If we kept our car/house money with it, I'd want the total amount larger than 10K. I've found that, for me, making very strict divisions helps me keep to my spending and saving goals.
That being said... there have been times when I have cut significantly into the fund and gone down to 3 months complete expenses to pay off large purchases or incidental expenses that come up unexpectedly. For example... a large medical expense only partially covered by insurance depleted about 2 months savings, but I remained with 4 months to recoup, get back to work, etc.
It also depends on what other nonfinancial resources you have. I do not have family locally, and could not relocate quickly if I did need their assistance, so my need for a safety net is greater than someone whom has supportive family more locally.
Good for you for working to create a savings net, I'm glad to see so many working towards this!