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It's that time of year...
...to discuss New Year's resolutions.
Haha.
MM or other...what are yours (if you are doing one)?
I called my local gym today and for the first time ever in my life, I have a gym membership (I had an amazing coupon that came the other day). I have had 3 kids in 3 1/2 years. I love my body, but I think I need to get to a healthier weight just for a good future. I have no medical issues now, but I'd like to prevent any from popping up (hopefully). Anyway, I have tossed this idea around for months, so it technically isn't a resolution - the coupon just happened to arrive when "I needed it."
Re: It's that time of year...
MM: Pay off H's car and my PLUS loan ($13,000 total at 6.9% and 9%, respectively). Snowball these payments into down payment fund once complete. Fix beneficiaries on all accounts, and raise retirement contribution from 5% to 10% for both of us.
Professional: Write a grant and get it funded. Goof off on phone on official breaks only.
Personal: Get back to size 8-10, my healthiest weight (I'm a 12-14 currently, and fine with how I look but just don't feel healthy). Run 5 miles without it being a huge drama. Fix messed up sleep schedule (no falling asleep on the couch watching TV!)
Personal:
End everyday telling H a reason I love him
Start walking again! I would love to walk 5 miles a day 3X a week. I used to walk everyday before our move. I am happy with how I look but it couldn't hurt to lose a few pounds.
Read 25 books.
Stick to all of the goals on the list so we can start TTC December 1st!
Professional:
Keep this job! I have worked five jobs in 7 months and I am sick of it. I don't love my PT job but the pay is decent and I get great vacations. I need to stay put.
Financial:
$6,750 into savings
$4,918 to pay off two more SL
Save $1,500 for our Christmas in Florida next year
Save $700 for H to buy a golf membership for summer 2015.
---This is about $13,250 to save in 12 months. We saved more than that in 6 months last year so hopefully we will be able to knock another SL off this year as well.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
For us, it comes down to the idea of simplifying life. We're still trying to figure out exactly what that means, but it involves:
1. purchasing less stupid, unnecessary stuff. I'm a sucker for a good deal, but I'm trying to embrace the 100% savings mantra.
2. Reducing clutter. Donate/dump the current unnecessary stuff, as the upkeep of this lifestyle is too expensive mental real estate.
3. Eating less processed, junky food. We're considering signing up for Fresh 20 to help us with this
We are also saving for a DP for a house. We currently have 32,500 in savings, but we are about to spend 2400 for summer camp for DS (he has special needs, and we feel he really *needs* this camp). I would love to close out 2014 with 52,000 if we don't buy a house this year.