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Someone please tell me to calm down!

I'm babysitting my brother's dog while he is in Italy for the holidays.  I've been babysitting him since the 20th, and my brother comes back on the 5th.

The dog is a 9 month old English Bulldog and weighs 56 lbs.  He hasn't been trained well, plays very rough, fights with other dogs, and chews EVERYTHING.  Yesterday, while I was in the shower, he ate a pair of my UGG Ansley loafers (which cost me $100.)  Then today when I was painting my nails, I hear him chewing on something.  I look over, and he had gotten into the closet (which was shut) and ate the soles off of my Tod's, which are $700 shoes.

I'm so upset.  Like...SO upset.  Someone please tell me to calm down, that he's only a dog, and these things happen.

Re: Someone please tell me to calm down!

  • I think I'd be submitting a bill to your brother for the replacement costs of the shoes and never agreeing to watch this dog again.

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  • If your brother can go to Italy then he can kennel his dog or get a house/ dog sitter (why did you have to take the dog to your home?)

    Tell your brother what happened. Show proof if you can. And hopefully he'll give you money. And don't watch the dog in your home again.
  • erollis said:
    If your brother can go to Italy then he can kennel his dog or get a house/ dog sitter (why did you have to take the dog to your home?) Tell your brother what happened. Show proof if you can. And hopefully he'll give you money. And don't watch the dog in your home again.
    Sorry for not being more clear.  I've moved into my brother's to watch this dog.  My building does not allow dogs.

    I offered to watch the dog to save him the expense of kenneling the dog for several weeks.

    I just feel sort of weird asking him to pay to replace the shoes, but it's TWO pairs now.
  • I would ask your brother to pay dor the Uggs, and for the cost of resoling the others. You may be able to save the pricier shoes if you take them to a good cobbler.
  • Honestly, this is your fault.  YOU left your items where an untrained puppy could reach.  This is dog ownership 101.  

    I could almost see asking for replacing the first pair, but once he gnawed on the first pair, you should have learned your lesson.  


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  • Why did you take $700 shoes to dog sit?!? It just seems ridiculous on your part.
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  • Spin313 said:
    Why did you take $700 shoes to dog sit?!? It just seems ridiculous on your part.
    They were flats.  I was wearing them to work, and leaving straight from my brother's place to the office…since it's about 4 blocks between the two places.
  • edited January 2014
    this is an OWNER PROBLEM!

    What is your brother thinking???

    A puppy needs discipline, needs to be socialized, needs to learn how to walk on a leash, to heel, to "leave it" to "come" to "Stay" and many other things!

    And he needs to keep ALL chewables out of that puppy's reach.

    Get some raw marrowbones from the butcher section of your supermarket and give those to the pup. Bet you he has hours of endless fun.

    They're great to keep a dog busy and to keep his teeth clean and white.:)

    Tell your brother what we told you, particularly the part about training a puppy. If he doesn't nip this in the bud NOW, that dog will be a bigger problem when he is an adult.

    Fighting with other dogs is a definite NO. I would hate to see an incident happen, with either another dog or a person.

    If he hasn't got the time or inclination to devote his time to a dog -- and a very large breed in particular (a bulldog is a large breed dog) then he needs to consider rehoming the dog, preferably with a bulldog owner.

    I am not one to say "rehome the dog" but in this case, it may have to happen.

    Don't assume a dog is trained. Keep your shoes out of the dog's reach.
  • Really, I am sorry for your loss, but totally your fault. The first thing you learn with a puppy is they only chew on things they can get to. If I owned $700 shoes my dog who is 11 and doesn't chew on anything still wouldn't have access to them. Certainly not after chewing a $100 pair of shoes. I am sorry for you, this totally sucks :(
  • Yeah I'm in agreement with the others that said this is your own fault. Sorry.  But I'd maybe ask my brother for money for the UGGS. He should have warned you that the puppy was this way. Still, why you would wear even MORE expensive shoes after the incident with the UGGS to the house, AND put them in a place the dog can get into (I know you said it was in a closet but unless the puppy can open doors, you must have left the closet door open a little bit), it's your own doing.

    That really does suck about your shoes, and I'd tell your brother about it. If he has a lot of disposable income maybe he'll offer you the money to get the 2nd pair fixed, but I wouldn't hold a grudge if he doesnt. And...who the heck pays $700 for flats!! I can't really feel too sympathetic for you. lol!
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  • 100% your fault. You are watching a puppy! Don't allow things in his reach that can be destroyed.

    Asking for even a penny back for the damage is offensive. Take the hit, learn your lesson.
  • If you do watch him again, make sure to close the doors to the room where you have your stuff. Nothing worse then losing shoes you love, no matter what the price is. Also try to make time to take him for a good long walk after work and maybe a short one in the morning. It will help to tire him out. Also take some time to play with him and his toys. He may be untrained, but you would be surprised how fast dogs can be trained. Also dogs are like kids, when someone new is around they will try to see what they can get away that they know they can't get away with normally. Another good bribe for the dog, bring some raw hide bones. Those can keep a dog busy for hours and give him something acceptable to chew on.
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