Getting Pregnant
micaht91
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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
I'm so bitter...
First off, I've had 3 miscarriages and now I'm on month 2 of no period and negative pregnancy tests. I've been scheduled for ultrasounds in a week, but it's looking pretty grim. I find myself jealous of every female friend of mine who has become pregnant or had a baby recently, and it seems like they all have at one time. One friend in particular just announced her pregnancy, but my bitterness is 5 months ago she and her husband had an abortion because they jointly agreed "it wasn't the right time" but now suddenly it's the right time? I was one of the only friends she told about the pregnancy and then about the abortion. She knew how against it I was but 3 days after telling me about her pregnancy, she told me they had gotten an abortion. Why do people even tell you that stuff!? I know it wasn't intentionally meant to hurt, but struggling with miscarriages and fertility issues made it hurt, and now the announcing of the new pregnancy makes it hurt even more. My husband and I want nothing more than to start our family... I guess my post is more of a rant about how insanely bitter and jealous I am and praying to God that someone else is going through this too (not for the hurting part, of course!) so that I know that I'm not completely insane and irrational. This just sucks. Watching people who can't afford to feed themselves have kids, or people who can't even move out of their parents homes, or who have 5 other children get pregnant.... It just blows. Eh, I just needed to reach out. I'm constantly on the verge of tears and I hate this feeling.
Re: I'm so bitter...
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
Also, Is this your first post on GP? I don't recognize your sn. If so, maybe tell us a bit about yourself in an intro post, and definitely stick around. If not, I apologize for not recognizing you.
ETA I'm sorry I can't offer more. I haven't personally experienced loss, but I know there are women here who have. It's a shitty thing I wish no one had to experience.
TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
Unfortunetly, I have experienced one loss, but most here can understand how difficult it can be to express joy for others while in pain yourself.
TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 DS born: February 21, 2012
TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
TTC #1 since July 2012
Cycles 1-9: BFN
Cycle 10: Surprise BFP on 10/17/2013!
EDD: June 25, 2014
Baby Girl born via induction June 26, 2014
My TTC Journey Blog
BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
~Started acupuncture in May 2014~
~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz
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DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
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TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad spermmy read shelf:
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Married August 2009
3 years. 5 losses.
Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15