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Really Annoyed Convo Vent

So this guy, we will call him a D-Bag for right now, came into my office to say "Hi!" I don't like the customer very much and ALL the guys I work with know that but they let him into my office none the less.
After 40 seconds of small talk he asks "So any kids yet? Any on the way?" (My side eye moment of the day) RUDE MUCH! So I just chuckled and said "No."
He then says.... "Well tell you husband to get on that, you need babies. If he can't get the job done let me know I'll hop in! Or you can use my son, he's 15."

I literally gripped my office chair and said "I don't think so..."

I told my boss this conversation and she was appalled and told me to inform the guys up front that he is not allowed back here again.
The customer didn't see ANYTHING wrong with this conversation and all I wanted to do was kick him in the nuts the whole time after that.

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BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~

Re: Really Annoyed Convo Vent

  • O.O Holy shit... what a douche.  Fuck, I'm sorry.  I wholly condone the nut kicking.
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  • What an ass.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
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    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

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  • What a douche!!!! Tell him to fuk off.

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  • What a douche!!!! Tell him to fuk off.

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  • @nestcayla another double post

    Also, eff that. I would have kicked him in the nuts. I'm glad he is no longer allowed back.
  • Wow.. awkward and inappropriate much?! I'm glad your boss is backing you on this!

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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • I know!!! My mouth is still hanging open from this little talk. I don't even want to mention it to DH because he will just be so mad.

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    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • I would not have been able to hold my tongue!!
  • Ummm...wow...some people are seriously ridiculous!



    Me: PCOS and Hypothyroidism.
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    EDD: 6.15.15

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  • Seriously? Is there nothing that is too personal to ask strangers anymore????
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  • What? I just... I can't... Sigh... FUCK NO! Sorry you had to deal with that. What a dick.
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  • What the fuck?! Who the hell thinks they can talk to people that way?! That is appalling!

    I'm so glad you said something to your boss and he's not allowed back by your office anymore. That is seriously not right!
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    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
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  • I am constantly surprised what comes out of people's mouths that they think is totally okay to say. Sorry that you had to be in that situation.
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  • Seriously? Wow! 
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    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • Wow, what an a-hole...and totally inappropriate. I'm sorry you had to go through that :( 

    I'm glad he's no longer back and your boss is now aware of the situation. 
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • Wow that is so inappropriate in so many ways. I think I would have been like I don't want your genes but thanks anyway! I mean WTH??? Who says things like that?
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  • What a disgusting thing to say.
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  • Gross. I'm glad you boss has your back on this.
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  • You are a strong person because had this been me, it would have taken every ounce of my being to not crotch punt this guy. What a douche....
  • WTF?? What an incredibly rude and awkward thing to say...I'm sorry. :(

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  • Ew, how rude. I'm glad your boss backed you on this.

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  • Unbelievably inappropriate, and kind of disturbing. I'm glad your boss has your back!

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  • Ugh... I don't even have words... I would have knocked him out...


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
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    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I'm not easily offended and even I'd be grossed out by that.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
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    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
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  • Totally disgusting and inappropriate. Uncalled for.

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  • I just couldn't believe that someone had the audacity to be beyond rude about something so personal. My boss knows we are trying, well she assumes, so I know she knew I was completely offended by it.

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    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
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